The use of donor eggs is becoming more common. Especially among women over 40. And the technique enjoys the highest success rate of all fertility procedures. Most egg donation is anonymous. But some couples prefer to know their egg donor and take legal steps to contract for the donation of the eggs. If the donor knows the couple. The donor may wish to receive updates once the child is born or may even request visits. An egg donor contract that explicitly spells out the terms of any future relationship should always be used. Even when the donor is a close friend or relative. If you decide to use donor eggs. Ask your fertility clinic if they have available donors that they have already screened. Because some clinics have long waiting lists. You may prefer to find a donor through one of many egg donor agencies and registries. I wish you all the best in your second trial. Baby dust.