Hello Olivia! Yes! Just read your concern here. I agree that’s how it goes! So, yeah! I’m also undergoing an IVF this year. My case is also of primary infertility. I’ve PCOS and unable to get pregnant due to it. Already tried every day for like 6 years. So, yeah! Well, your husband is right! I think that surrogacy is a great way to go with. If you can have it! Just go for it! You can really have a child that way. I know that completing a family is so important! Stay strong! xx