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May 28, 2018 at 5:24 pm #2469AnonymousInactive
I am an infertile woman. I was married for the first time at the age of 27. I tried hard to have a baby. I was young and energetic about TTC but there was no luck. I had many complications while getting pregnant. At end i conceived for the first time. I was happy and so excited about my struggles. But it didn’t lasted long. I miscarried at 11th week. I was sad and depressed but i tried again for the next time. I again conceived and resulted in miscarriage. Than again i was pregnant for the 3rd time.But it also resulted in miscarriage. I gave upon getting pregnant again. My husband left me and i was heart broken. Now i am 43 years old and i soon going to getting married again. I told my husband everything about my infertility. He said we can go for surrogacy to have a baby. Now i will go for surrogacy to have a baby. wish luck.May 29, 2018 at 10:03 am #2480AnonymousInactive
hello there. how are you now? hope you’re fine. it brought tears to my eyes. you have struggled a lot. more power to you darl. I cannot believe how did you manage to bare all of this. lots of prayers for you. I really hope your marriage life be successful. best of luck for surrogacy. surrogacy is the best for you. it is a sure shot.I’m with you. will be waiting to hear the updates from you. take care.May 29, 2018 at 1:18 pm #2481AkiraParticipant
I’m sharing my journey of Surrogacy with you.
I’m basically from Japan we are settled in Japan from past few years.We are happily married.I’m totally infertile now as i had hysterectomy cancer and as i result i am infertile now. But my husband was there with me every time. Than we searched about surrogacy and found it best solution for us.
As Japan has banned surrogacy so we moved to Europe to find our dream come true.Than we moved to Ukraine as we heard there are many good clinics regarding surrogacy in Ukraine.In Ukraine we found a clinic and consulted them.They helped us to find a good surrogate mom.Now she is pregnant with our twin daughters.We are very excited about having two daughters.We are so thankful to the clinic.The surrogates mom are kind they let us have our dream come true.
Share your stories tooMay 29, 2018 at 2:09 pm #2484Joanne SilviaParticipant
Hey. I hope you’re doing well. I’m really sorry to hear about your condition. It’s a tough situation, Olivia. However, I can relate. We all can relate. We’ve gone through something similar. We’ve all been at this crossroads, like you. The important thing was the decisions we made, after reaching there. I went for surrogacy, like many others. And I’m sure everyone would recommend you to do the same. It’s a really good process. It’s safe and works out for everyone! I hope it works for you, too. Good luck and good day!May 29, 2018 at 2:33 pm #2485AnonymousInactive
It’s very Sad to know that you have gone through the tough time. Being infertile is the hardest time of women’s lives. All the pressure of having a child is on her .you are lucky that your husband was easily convinced by you .you should definitely go for surrogacy. There is a good clinic in Europe .till then best of luck.May 29, 2018 at 4:22 pm #2501ellewilsonParticipant
hey, really friend your story is so much hard to read. how you are surviving after all of this. if I were at your stage I will prefer to die with all my dreams keeping them in the depths of my heart. but I am very angry on a point that your husband had left you. how a person can do this to you. in all of these circumstances. this is the place where you need him more. In reality, he doesn’t deserve you. forget him. this is a good news that you haven’t take your divorce on your heart. and decided to keep on moving in life. so you are going to be married soon. my best wishes are with you. after the marriage, I suggest you not to wait for anything. don’t listen to anyone. it’s your life and you have to live it according to your style. no one has any right to point it out. surrogacy, my dear, is the achievement of modern technology. it is a source of giving happiness back again in the life people like you. and remember one thing you are not like people, in reality, they are like you.so my best wishes are with you. and advanced congratulation’s on your starting of new life.take care. be blessedMay 29, 2018 at 4:48 pm #2502Charlotte_HarrisParticipant
Hey Olivia. How are you doing right now? Hope so you are happy now. Well, your post just saddened me. I am feeling very heart drowning for you. That how some men are so selfish they left their wife for children. I am very sad about this. But my dear this is life, don’t lose hope. Life will be better soon. I am happy that you are going to marry again. Well, I wish you very best of luck with it. May your upcoming life bring you happiness. Best of luck with surrogacy. And I am sure that this time you will be a mother. Lots of prayers for you.May 29, 2018 at 4:56 pm #2505monikaParticipant
Hey, Olivia, I hope you’re doing good. I am extremely sorry to hear about your struggles. Life has definitely not been easy on you. MC can be really hard to deal with and its really sad to know that your partner left you alone to deal with all of this. However, I am glad you have finally found someone who will be much more caring. What did your doctors say about the problem? You had an issue staying pregnant why is that so? From your problem, it seems like going for surrogacy is a great option. This will ensure that the baby is safe. I think since you were getting pregnant it means your eggs can be used for the procedure. Just make sure that both of you are well researched on this process. It is an expensive treatment and therefore, we should ensure that none of the money is wasted. For surrogacy few things really do matter the first is a good clinic. Second thing is to make sure that the legal laws are in your favor. Best of luck I am sure things will go well.May 29, 2018 at 5:05 pm #2506Sarah WilliamsParticipant
Hello Olivia! Yes! Just read your concern here. I agree that’s how it goes! So, yeah! I’m also undergoing an IVF this year. My case is also of primary infertility. I’ve PCOS and unable to get pregnant due to it. Already tried every day for like 6 years. So, yeah! Well, your husband is right! I think that surrogacy is a great way to go with. If you can have it! Just go for it! You can really have a child that way. I know that completing a family is so important! Stay strong! xxMay 29, 2018 at 5:13 pm #2509AnonymousInactive
I’m sad for you as you have gone through very hard time. Being infertile is very depressing and disheartening. Society always blames ladies for infertility. You are lucky as you have convinced your DH. I will suggest you go for surrogacy treatment. A very prominent clinic in Europe is offering surrogacy. Well, best of luck from my side dear.May 29, 2018 at 5:15 pm #2510Julia ChristineParticipant
Hey! Hope so you are doing good. I felt very sad to know about your condition. No one can forget the grief of the miscarriage. But don’t worry it is the part of life. I’m proud of you that you are moving on. It’s a big deal. I want to give you some suggestions. As I have passed through this method. So, first, choose the best clinic for surrogacy. Choose that clinic that gives quality treatment. There are some clinics in Europe that are specialized for surrogacy. They also provide their customers with gender selection. I think you should search such clinics and consult with your doctor about it.
All my sympathies are with you.
Take careMay 29, 2018 at 5:45 pm #2515Jessica fieldsParticipant
I am sorry you had to go through all this. Your husband was a coward to leave you. Happy that you have your happiness now. The reason for MC can be that your body cannot carry the baby. It is okay though. You can always go for surrogacy. Good luck on the new journey.May 29, 2018 at 5:47 pm #2517ezabelParticipant
A tough journey you had. This would have taken much courage to overcome what all you have been gone through. That’s really sad to hear about your journey. This is not easy to have so many troubles and then having a fresh start again. Many women have to take much time to overcome their thoughts and loss they had been through. And i guess that’s fine. You must be mentally and physically ready to have a fresh start. Just like your story. MC and then marriage loss. Two of the worst thing that a woman could observe. Hope you get the courage to forget all these bad memories. That was a nightmare. The worst nightmare. That I wish no one had to observe. And would pray for you. That you get all the courage to get through all this soon. You did a great thing by starting up with a new man. Hope he cares for you as you deserve. And find all the positivity in surrogacy. That’s really nice of him to agree on surrogacy procedure. You have to be positive. Have a good life.XXMay 29, 2018 at 7:33 pm #2526Farah SmithParticipant
Hi there… Olivia smith hope you are fine.Really sorry to hear what you are going through. Being not able to conceive naturally is very hard phase of women life.Many women gave up in these hard times. Its good that you didn’t gave up. Every women need child and it takes some time and struggles to reach your desired destination. Things to science for providing us these opportunities and treatments. You are following a right path. Surrogacy indeed is a blessing of science and had changed the life of so many people. I wish and hope it will definitely work for you too. My Good wishes and prayers are with you.May 30, 2018 at 3:15 am #2531AriaParticipant
Hello! sad to hear from you. Your journey is really hard. But it is a positive thing that you are not losing hope. I am glad to know that you are thinking about the surrogacy. It is really an amazing thing. As a surrogate mother, I can understand that how surrogacy helps. It is just like a miracle for intended parents. After my 4 MCs, I went for surrogacy as a last option. I got a surrogate son through it. It is the safest way of getting a baby. Sucess rate of surrogacy is satisfactory. So I would recommend you to go for it. Best of luck. Stay blessed
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