Hey there! How are you doing? Hope you are doing fine. We are doing great. Look, This is between you and your DH. Don’t care what others think. Ignore them. Block them from making your decisions for you. It is your happiness that matters at the end of the day. There is no easy way to do it but you would have to and you know it. So just do it. When they realize it is 2018 and how the world has progressed and step out of their minds they will know it too. Until then you go sister! Take care. God bless.