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  • #1949
    Mee
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    Dear, this is an extremely muddled issue. You ought not to get irritated at her. Matured individuals do have such sort of musings. I think you and your DH should attempt to persuade her. Reveal to her that it’s totally alright to have an infant through surrogacy. Ask her that wouldn’t she like to have a grandchild. What a delightful inclination it would be the point at which she’ll grasp her grandchild. Reveal to her the amount you have endured. What’s more, how seriously you need this child. I trust she’ll get it. Good fortunes!

    #2460
    Farah Smith
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    Hey there hope you fine. Really sorry for your infertility. Its good that you are looking for treatments and choosen surrogacy. Well I had also faced the same situation like you. My in-laws was also against surrogacy but my husband supported my decision. We take our in-laws to doctors with us. Doctors told every thing to them in very detail.They finally realize that it is not a curse, infact a blessing of science.All that was not that easy the way it is looking. Convincing them was very very hard but we did that. You people can also do it. Talk to them very politely.Take them to the clinic.Things will be alright very soon.They will agree after all they are your parents.Our good wishes and prayers are with you.Cheers.

    #2486
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Hi, how are you? I hope you may be fine. Congratulations on starting your surrogacy journey. Trust me you will enjoy this time period. It’s great that you find your happiness .the best thing is that it is through surrogacy . You must have a very rough time. it seems to be easy but it is difficult. Only the person who suffers understands the pain. I am very happy for you. Difficulties in your journey make your destination beautiful. Secondly, I am disappointed with you. Why you let others affect your decision .its your life .it’s your choice .let people think and say whatever they want to. Don’t affect yourself through it. After some time your family will accept this reality. Till then I pray that you get your happiness soon.

    #2492
    Anika louis
    Participant

    Hey. hope you are doing fine. Sorry to hear about your Situation. I faced the same scenario in my situation. My In-laws were also not agreed for Surrogacy. But, later I convinced them. They were agreed. Then I went to Europe for the Suggested Clinic. Today I am a blessed mother. Hope things will go right in your way. Stay blessed.

    #2495
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    I am also in the same condition.
    I can’t get pregnant and i don’t know the reason for it too.
    The doctors are also unable to find the reason for this.
    I have gone through extensive testings but the doctors are also unable to find the main cause for my infertility.
    They can’t tell the main problem.
    I have been trying to conceive from last 10 years now.
    But still i didn’t conceived.
    As doctors can’t tell the main cause of my infertility i guess i will go for surrogacy now.
    I live in Bulgaria where surrogacy is prohibited.
    I heard there are many clinics for infertility treatment in Ukraine.
    I read about many clinics there from these forums.
    I have found BioTexCom clinic from Ukraine.People talk mostly about this clinic.
    I will contact this clinic and will consult them about my problem.
    Surrogacy is very popular there so i guess i will also have a baby from surrogacy.

    #2514
    Jessica fields
    Participant

    This is not of her business. Sorry to say but she needs to stay out of it. It is your life. It is your decision. She is not the one going through the pain. She is not struggling. It is easy to make up things. It is difficult to bear all the struggle. Tell your husband to convince her. Obviously, you cannot just hush her like that. I hope she gets on board. Show her some videos. Tell her that is legal. It is nothing to be ashamed upon. I hope she will think about it. Good luck with the MIL.

    #2537
    Ellen
    Participant

    Hello buddy. I hope things are good at your side. I am really amazed at your mother in law’s view. I mean, she should understand you. She needs to know that it is the only option for you. You first need to convince your husband. Tell him this is the only way you guys can enjoy motherhood. Ask him to talk to his mother. He should tell her how desperately you both want a baby. It is sad to know that she thinks she has a final say in your matters. She should understand your pain. She should support you instead of mocking you. I hope your husband helps you go through all this. Good luck! Sending my support for you. Take care.

    #2542
    Nelly Kom
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    Surrogacy is merely a blessing for the people who can’t have children naturally. We should be thankful for these processes, but people frown upon it. I feel sorry for you. The time where your family should be supportive, they’re not. Don’t worry about them. If you and your husband are happy and satisfied with your decision, then nobody else matters. Your husband should be on your side so that he can convince his mother. And if he isn’t able to, even then you shouldn’t worry. You want to complete your family by having a baby. If they care about you, they will understand. You don’t stress over it, think about the upcoming good times. Surrogacy is trending nowadays due to infertility becoming common. I hope you have an amazing process done. Lots of love and prayers for you! Sending baby dust your way.

    #2593
    Lizzy
    Participant

    Hey there! How are you doing? Hope you are doing fine. We are doing great. Look, This is between you and your DH. Don’t care what others think. Ignore them. Block them from making your decisions for you. It is your happiness that matters at the end of the day. There is no easy way to do it but you would have to and you know it. So just do it. When they realize it is 2018 and how the world has progressed and step out of their minds they will know it too. Until then you go sister! Take care. God bless.

    #2619
    mariakd
    Participant

    I don’t understand that why they are doing this. They should understand your pain .being infertile is not an easy thing. Only those understand who suffers from the pain. That’s why they don’t understand you .you should convince your husband. If he is convinced every problem will be resolved. I wish you a very good luck.

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