Well, I just read your whole post here. I understand what your concern is. I think that it’s a child’s right to stay normal. Yes! There shouldn’t be any confusion. I’m also heading for surrogacy this year at a repro center in Ukraine. But, I’d resist and avoid sharing the details of it with my child. So, yeah! He should be assured of everything like we love him/her. There shouldn’t be any doubts or unnecessary questions with him. So, yeah! I’d not consider sharing it all with him. He should just know that we love him and we are his parents. that’s all I believe and that’s how it is.