Tifanny you have chosen a sensitive topic. I always think about it. but never have enough courage to discuss it with those who suffered from this. I never reached this stage yet. But want to know about it in depth. Should we tell our children that who’s their real parents? I think they shouldn’t bother these things. because you bring them up and give them a facilitated life with good education career. Yeah, blood relation never dies. If they come to know about them then they shouldn’t make their family. Surrogate mother shouldn’t contact him ever. If they do so their intended parents will die without going through natural death. Yeah, this is the right strategy. Prepare yourself with all question that they might ask you. but never lie to them about their birth. If they acknowledge this story from some other person then their trust will be broken.