Such an informative post. I myself am going through this process and I can relate to her on so many levels. The clinic we are getting our surrogacy done from also gave us access to the egg donor database. They have 100+ donors on that database. We didn’t know how difficult it would be to choose. I didn’t know on what level were we to see things. It took us a lot of time to decide as well. We wanted to have a donor who was open so that later if our child does ask or inquire about the woman we could try to contact her.