Hey I hope you are fine now. Firstly I think that is a very discouraging behavior from your advisor. Surrogacy is your only hope! I have read so many good things about the process. There are so many good things about it over the internet. Although I am new to this forum but I have read a lot of success stories over here as well. I think you should read them as well. Surrogacy has proven to be a highly successful process. For the procedure the thing that really matters is a good clinic. Therefore, it is important that you research properly about it. If you are well researched then there will be no problem. It is illegal to do this process in certain countries so while you are searching keep this in mind. Best of luck to you. All my warm prayers are with you. Do keep us posted.