Hi, well I support your husband. I think you should try surrogacy before going for adoption. A biological heir can never be replaced by an adopted one. Atleast thats what I have learned as I am adopted. My husband also wanted to adopt but I convinced him for surrogacy. We are soon going to start our treatment. We would have started it already if we had not wasted our time with unprofessional clinics like Lotus in Ukraine. They have wasted my time by refusing to share info and ignorance, that is why I am searching a better alternative. So please be hopeful and find some good clinic to have your own child.