Hey dear. I hope you are doing well. Your question is really confusing. But the reality is you can answer it
only. It really depends on your preference. Rather you should decide it with your husband. You can ask him what is his preference. You both could mutually decide it. Whether you guys want your own genetical child or go for adoption. Some people want their own child so they go for surrogacy. I also went for surrogacy. Now blessed with a baby girl. I am a happy MOM. Celebrating life with her and DH. Wish you luck.