It’s very Sad to hear from you. It was the tough time of your life. But in the end, you made the right decision. I can understand the pain of infertility. It is a very difficult time. But good to know that you are thinking for alternatives. Surrogacy is a very secure procedure for having a baby. Do not worry about the Surrogate mother. There are some clinics which are best at it. I am also having a baby girl through IVF. They arrange surrogate mothers for couples. Best of luck. Stay happy. Don’t hesitate and go for it. It will be the best decision of your life. Till then best of luck.