Having gone through the whole surrogacy process, I feel as if I have some insight to give to people who may be looking for some closure. I will say however that this just me sharing my experience and not medical advice so take it only as that. Here goes… so when I got married, my husband and I tried for two years to have a baby but we were coming up short. We tried hormone treatments and all that but nothing seemed to be working. Later, after a few trips to the doctor’s office and extensive tests, I learned that I was unable to have children. As devastating as that was, my husband’s love and my own personal resolve kinda pushed me to get past this and I kept on looking for ways to have a child of my own. Surrogacy then came about as the logical solution and then came more tests. As difficult as the process of taking my eggs out was, coming to terms with the fact that another woman was going to give birth to my child. The doctors at the clinic really helped with that. They helped me calm down and not be as manic. Now I have my beautiful child. I can say that it was worth it. I love her more than anything. Hope this helped