Hey there! How are you? Well there is no best time. Whenever you feel you should. But there should be a minimum gap of 2 years I think. If you need a personal opinion though, here goes. If I were you I would have the second child after 3 years. Exactly 3 years. No more no less. But sadly I can’t have a child. Not even one. I have endometrial cancer. It is still in stage 1. Caught very early. I guess I just got lucky. But my luck did not work ou when it came to having a baby. My doctor has advised me against becoming pregnant. I am thinking about other ways now.