Surrogacy is not that much problematic, as we think of it. If you are planning for it. You should not let any factor to alter your mind. I had cancer. And due to cancer, I was diagnosed infertile. I tried much infertile treatment. But all went in vain. My friend suggested me a clinic. I went there they said the only treatment I had left was surrogacy. They had a group of donors. We selected a donor. And now God has blessed me with twin daughters. I wish everyone very good luck. Hope you find peace in what you have.