Aww, I always wish for twins or triplets. According to me, triplets are a blessing. Not just blessings but triple blessings. Since I was a child I have always wished for this. To have multiples. If it is twins then it is fine. Same case to triplets. Then after this, I will not conceive again. I am so glad for her. It is so unfortunate that she is regretting. I can understand how tiresome the kids can be. But it is just for a short while. When they grow up it will be over. Actually she will be proud of them. They are just stressful for this short period. There after she will start enjoying the fruits. Just tell her to manage for now. She can have another nanny if she wants to. Then when the kids are grown up she can remain with one. Being a first time mother it must be hard for her. But after sometimes she will get used.