Dear, I felt sad to know about the difficulties you are facing. I know it would be difficult for you. But I am happy that you are strong enough to choose the alternatives. The thing on which you are confused is mandatory. IVF and surrogacy both are the options to have a baby. However, IVF is a painful method. You get cramps and pain. And many are afraid of needles. Well, surrogacy is an easy process. You have to find a good surrogate for yourself. I am highly in favor of it. Surrogacy is a blessing. It is a hope in many infertile people’s life. I have watched a lot of success stories. They really leave a great effect on me.