So good to hear about your brother. I believe this will motivate other too. Now that they are gays and have children. Some people have been living long in infertility. It should encourage them that nothing lasts forever. This is not only for the gays. It should be a message to anyone out there. To know that there is more into life than crying over infertility. There are many means to deal with it. From all the option available. I believe there will be one that will work out. And if none works out. Just know that adoption is part of the process. It seems the two of you have been through a lot. Since childhood that is., But you have stuck together. So you should never stop encouraging each other. Motivate each other more often. let him feel okay with the infertility problem. I hope also hi partner is encouraging him. May the love never fade.