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June 2, 2018 at 4:40 pm #2622AnonymousInactive
I’m 43 year old now. I’m married now and i was married before. From my first marriage i had no luck with having children although i conceived for 3 times. I had many complications while getting pregnant. I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages every time. I am married for second time i want to have a baby now. Having a look at my previous pregnancy period i guess it is not a good idea to be pregnant again. So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option. Surrogate are willing to carry our child and the clinic had said that the surrogate will have no effect on the DNA of our child. The child will be off my and my husband DNA. You should also visit a for surrogacy clinic. I also contacted some surrogates who are willing to carry someone’s child in their womb. Now we are looking for a perfect surrogate to carry our child in her womb. I also met some mothers raising babies from surrogacy procedure. I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered a lot of information regarding this process. I guess someone here will also be going to surrogacy and will guide us.June 2, 2018 at 5:19 pm #2627AkiraParticipant
Sorry to hear about your infertility and miscarriages.
Its the part of life. I am from Japan. I am also infertile.
We moved to Europe in search of a very good clinic. We didn’t found a good clinic in Europe. We moved to Ukraine than. In Ukraine we found a clinic. It has many good reputation. As i am sharing my direct experience with you all. We found a good surrogate. Now she is pregnant with our two daughters. Soon we will have two daughters.June 7, 2018 at 6:53 pm #2760ezabelParticipant
Yes, I am here. The surrogacy women. Or you could say intended parent. I am the one who is seeking for the surrogacy procedure. And soon I would be going for this. But till then I am just gathering some of the information regarding surrogacy. Including clinics, cost, places. And just having me time on this forum.
I do believe that being on such forum is a great therapy. I found so much hope and lower my stress. It just keeps me busy until the time I go for surrogacy. I do have a number of clinics in my mind that I would surely look for. Good luck to you.June 7, 2018 at 11:11 pm #2769Jessica fieldsParticipant
You have chosen the right thing. Surrogacy will solve your problem. It will give you a baby. I am sure it will bring light in your life. Now I would suggest few things. Dont look for independent surrogates. You will have to take care of the legal things. It becomes a mess. It is better to get in touch with a clinic. This way there is a third party involved. They will arrange for a surrogate. They will take care of the legal things. The package will include the cost paid to the surrogate as well. I am sure this will work better for you.June 8, 2018 at 12:59 pm #2783Charlotte_HarrisParticipant
Hey Olivia. How are you doing? Sorry to hear about your miscarriages. I really feel that it should be stopped now. Infertility is now curable. Science has introduced two wonderful treatment for the cure of infertility. Surrogacy and IVF. I think we all should make effort to promote. There are still many people who are living hopeless life because of infertility. You both really lucky that you have knowledge about this treatment, One of my friends also had a baby through surrogacy. Her life was totally hopeless when a doctor declared him infertile. But after few years they came to know about surrogacy. They immediately went for it and now they are a parent of 2 beautiful children. I am glad that you opted to go for surrogacy. I wish you find your respective surrogate as soon as possible. Best of luck.June 8, 2018 at 1:05 pm #2784Felicia SazParticipant
Hello. I hope you are well. I’m sorry to hear about your struggle with fertility. I know that no one deserves this, but it is still one of the most common situations. Its good to know that you finally accepted the reality. This will save you money and time. I’m glad you started doing your research on this. Research is extremely important before taking a step like this. These procedures can get very risky. Make sure you go to a reliable clinic. I know of one. It has a great success rate. This gives their clients a 100% guarantee of a baby. Isn’t that amazing? You should check it out.June 8, 2018 at 1:12 pm #2788Joanne SilviaParticipant
Hey Olivia. How are you? I hope you’re okay. I’m really sorry to hear about your problems. I hope things get better for you ASAP. You have been through so much. It must have been really hard. I’m glad that you’ve decided to go for surrogacy. It’s a great process. I like it so much because of the guarantee it brings. You’re almost certain to get a baby through it. It’s safe as well. You don’t have to go through the hassle of conceiving yourself. I hope you find success. Good luck!June 8, 2018 at 3:21 pm #2793kim01Participant
Hello. I am so sad for you. As you are 43 it is somewhat old to consider at this age. It is wonderful that you didn’t lose trust. I wish that you will be a mother soon. I know it is somewhat hard yet dont stress you will be a mother soon. I have a child through surrogacy. I have faced infertility for 10 years. I never knew the reason. Doctors always said that nothing is wrong with me. But I was not able to conceive from 10 years. I went for surrogacy. I went to a center in Europe. The center was prestige for its surrogacy. I am glad that I picked it. I have a child now. I am a glad mother now.June 8, 2018 at 3:41 pm #2795milaParticipant
Hey girl. I am so sorry for you. As you are 43 it is a bit old to conceive at this age. It is great that you didnt lose hope. I wish that you will be a mother soon. I know it is a bit hard but dont worry you will be a mother soon. I have a baby through surrogacy so I think I can guide you. I had miscarriages and it was because I had uterine complication. It turned into infertility. I was fine with it. So I decided to not to waste time. I chose to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic was renown for its surrogacy. I am happy that I chose it. I have a baby now. I am a happy mother now.June 8, 2018 at 3:53 pm #2796Anika louisParticipant
Hey, hope you are doing fine. You are taking a good decision, I am totally agreed with you. Surrogacy is expensive in many countries. It is not legal everywhere. It is legal in Europe. There is a clinic which is affordable. I had surrogacy from that clinic. I have a daughter. There the clinic is reliable and successful for surrogacy. I suggest u go there without any delay. I am so happy that people are now much aware of this procedure. The only thing that matters in surrogacy is the surrogate must have to be healthy and cooperative. The reliable clinics make everything legal. If you choose a good clinic then you won’t face any problems regarding babies. In surrogacy, the surrogate has no right to baby legally and genetically if she changes her mind later. Today I am a blessed mother just because of Surrogacy.June 8, 2018 at 8:29 pm #2804monikaParticipant
Hey, Olivia, I hope you are doing well. You have indeed gone through a lot during your infertility journey. I think you have made a good decision by not trying to conceive naturally. This can be harmful for you and the baby as well. Surrogacy has proven to be quite successful for many infertile couples. It has a 70% chance of success. It is very smart of you that you are researching on this treatment. One should be properly acquainted with the process before they opt for it. Since I myself have decided to go for surrogacy. The clinic I have chosen matches you to a surrogate themselves. This way it is a lot easier for us. The clinic has a criteria which the surrogate has to fulfill in order to become the surrogate mother. The clinic also has a medical test which basically ensures that the surrogate is free of diseases. This ensures her and the baby’s safety. This has made it also made it easier for us as now we know the process will be carried out safely.June 9, 2018 at 11:27 am #2845AnonymousInactive
I felt very sad for you. Your age is a major factor in conceiving a child. It’s appreciable that you still trying. I believe that you’ll have a baby soon. I know it’s very hard and requires a lot of courage. I also have a child through surrogacy treatment. I fought with infertility for more than ten years and finally defeated it. My doctors never told me the reason behind my infertility. I had detailed medical treatment several times. Doctors told me that if I even conceive a single time, I’ll miscarry the child. So, artificial treatments were the only option left for me. My friend suggested me a prominent clinic in Europe. I have read many positive reviews about that clinic. I’m lucky that I went there in time. Surrogacy was beneficial for me. It really made my life!June 9, 2018 at 5:01 pm #2847smash12Participant
You have picked the correct thing. Surrogacy will deal with your worry. It will give you a newborn child. I am sure it will get light your life. By and by I would prescribe couple of things. Don’t look for self-ruling surrogates. You should manage the genuine things. I’m upbeat you started doing your investigation on this. Research is basic before making a walk along these lines. These procedures can get uncommonly perilous. Guarantee you go to a strong office. I am mindful of one. It has a marvelous accomplishment rate. This gives their clients a 100% affirmation of a tyke. Isn’t that staggering? You should take a gander at it. In surrogacy, the surrogate has no benefit to kid legally and genetically in case she changes her supposition later. Today I am a respected mother in perspective of Surrogacy.June 9, 2018 at 7:53 pm #2856Farah SmithParticipant
Hey there how are you? Hope you are fine.Really sorry to know what you had gone through. Its good that after sad experience now you are finally on right path. Surrogacy is indeed a great blessing of science and its helping many couple around the globe. Its good to hear that after bad experience you finally get the best man for you. I hope you get best surrogate mother for you. Yes, sweetie child will be your own as it will be born through your genes. My good wishes and prayers are with you . You will be amazing mother. Be positive and hopeful. CheersJune 10, 2018 at 11:18 am #2880TrishaParticipant
Miscarriage is one of the most devastating experiences that can happen to a woman. Having one miscarriage is sadly, not that uncommon. Approximately two out of every ten pregnancies will result in miscarriage. After having one miscarriage most women go on to have a healthy pregnancy. Still there are a few women that will continue to have two, three or more miscarriages. Women are considered to have recurrent miscarriages when they have two or three miscarriages in a row. According to the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, only about one percent of women will have three consecutive miscarriages or more. Many doctors will not perform any tests until after a woman has had three consecutive miscarriages. Even with testing, doctors may not be able to determine the cause of recurrent miscarriage. But since you have decided to go for surrogacy well, all the best. I wish you all the best though. Let it be a success from now henceforth.
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