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July 8, 2018 at 9:21 am #4480monikaParticipant
Hi, guys, I hope you are well. I find this forum so perfect, especially because I am going through the surrogacy procedure and so is everyone else. I really want to talk about the procedure. How is it going for you all? I recently met my surrogate mother and I was so nervous to meet her. However, she was just perfect! She was so nice to us and I already think I made a lifetime friend. The real question is do you feel awkward about the process or are you more open about it with your family.
July 8, 2018 at 11:55 am #4496AkiraParticipantI have a experience of surrogacy from Ukraine. Ukraine is very popular for its clinics regarding infertility. I have been there in Ukraine myself. there are a number of clinics in Ukraine for infertility solutions.
I was infertile due to hysterectomy cancer. I was cancer free after sometime but it resulted in my total infertility. My husband decided that we will go for surrogacy to have a child. here in Japan surrogacy is prohibited. So we moved to Ukraine for surrogacy. There we found a very good clinic which is best for its surrogacy. We started our surrogacy journey at that clinic. Clinic founded a good surrogate for us. Then we went through the whole process and everything was just perfect. Now our surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. We are so happy that we will finally have our baby with us.
We will be flying to Ukraine once the clinic let us know the delivery date of our surrogate.
This is the story of our surrogacy journey.
Good luck to you friend.July 8, 2018 at 1:36 pm #4505NINAParticipantI know you are living a difficult life. It is a tough time for you. You need to remain strong in this situation. Ths time will pass. It is good to see that your husband is supportive that is a good sign. Go for surrogacy, before going for surrogacy do go for a good clinic. Adonis is not a good clinic. They will not help you solve your problems. Having your own children is the best feeling in the world. I hope you too get this happiness in your life.
July 8, 2018 at 1:36 pm #4507AnonymousInactiveI think surrogacy is an amazing procedure. So many couples are opting for it. I hope everything goes well for you. I am sure meeting the surrogate would have been nerve breaking. However, I am glad you were able to become friends. This makes me want to conclude that surrogacy is more than about giving birth. It is about love. Best of luck to you.
July 8, 2018 at 1:55 pm #4508riazoyerParticipantI hope you are doing great. I am really sorry to hear that you cant have your own kids. However, I am really glad. That you chose surrogacy as one of your options. I know how hard it must be for you. I have been through it. I do realize the pain you feel. However, I think surrogacy is the best option for you. I am also opting for surrogacy. It hope it is going to be a wonderful experience. However, it’s your decision. Do your research and decide calmly. I wish you good luck.
July 8, 2018 at 2:23 pm #4512yusraParticipantDon’t stress too much. Well, I think you’ve already chosen a suitable way for you. Well, I personally have a child through IVF. I am three months pregnant. I think you should try agencies or centers for this method. Where these methods are affordable as compared to the North American ones. I think you should try search clinics Internet might bring better options for you. I hope you will find a good one. Wish me luck! Stay blessed. xx
July 8, 2018 at 6:15 pm #4525EllenParticipantI am so sorry for your infertility. It is indeed a very tough phase of one’s life. I am glad you didn’t lose hope. You made yourself strong. Strong enough to struggle through this all. Surrogacy is really great. It is a blessing in disguise. I am glad that to tell that my sister has had surrogacy too. She is a blessed mom. Ukraine is famous for such clinics. It offers quite good packages. I am sure you are going to have a good experience. Best of luck to you. I hope you find your rainbow soon. My prayers are with you.
July 8, 2018 at 6:22 pm #4528AnonymousInactiveI am also trying to conceive from last 10 years. You have the same problem as me. There is no reason behind my infertility. Doctors can’t even tell me the reason behind my infertility. So i will be also like you will go for surrogacy. I live in Bulgaria there surrogacy is not legal. So i will move to Ukraine to go for surrogacy.
July 8, 2018 at 6:37 pm #4529anna88ParticipantHey there. It is glad that you have decided on surrogacy. It is a wonderful process. As far as you question is concerned, I never felt ashamed of it. I never hid it from my family. Since they all are very supportive. My husband stood by my side. He would not let me lose hope. I suffer from infertility too. Due to the chromosomal disability, I cannot conceive. Thanks to surrogacy I am a happy mom now. Ukraine is the best. I think you should go there. I hope you find your rainbow soon. And, the process goes as you have planned it to be. My best wishes are with you.
July 8, 2018 at 7:15 pm #4535Jessy SmithParticipantHello. Hope you are doing well. I am glad you chose surrogacy. I wish it works out for you. I think one should be open regarding surrogacy. It has become common now. I believe there is nothing in surrogacy to be feeling awkward. I agree it is still controversial. Everyone has different thinking, especially old people. It is becoming more common for the young generation. Many good clinics offer it. Keep your hopes high regarding it. Keep struggling with this journey. I wish you all the best. Good luck!
July 8, 2018 at 8:32 pm #4540kathrineParticipanthi. how are you? I am sorry to hear. It is really hard to accept all this. deal this problem with hope. infertility is a curse now. it creates much hopelessness in the family. But its treatment could be possible by IUI, IVF, and surrogacy. Surrogates woman really need appreciation. they are doing public service by my point of view. surrogacy is the best option ever found. surrogacy will provide you a hundred percent result. surrogate women usually provide hope to infertility. But surrogacy is the best option I have ever seen. hope for good. Best wishes. I really pray for the best in your life.
July 8, 2018 at 8:54 pm #4543Felicia SazParticipantHi. That is really nice of you. I’m more open to my family about my surrogacy. I have planned to tell my child too as soon as possible. There is no point in hiding or feeling ashamed about it. Children deserve to know where they come from. I hope other people think the same way.
July 9, 2018 at 3:58 am #4556Nelly KomParticipantWell, my family frowns upon surrogacy. They say that it’s better to adopt a child if you can’t conceive. Having a child through unnatural means is not right. So, I didn’t give a damn and didn’t meet them for 9 months. My friends were very supportive. They were like family to me and were there at my tough time. So, that’s my story. I hope you have an amazing process!
July 9, 2018 at 6:50 am #4568AnonymousInactiveHey monika, how are you? I am happy to hear about the good news. Surrogacy is a blessing indeed. I am glad you found a good clinic. Soon you will become a mother. Can you recommend your clinic to me? I am looking for a good clinic. Previously i contacted Adonis clinic but betrayed by them. They are looting people in name of treatment.
July 9, 2018 at 7:40 am #4572DaisyParticipantWow Monika, congratulations girl. I am so happy for you. I am trying to get started too. But Lotus clinic that I was in contact with is too lazy and ignorant. There communication channel is hell poor. They need to hire a good, cooperative and sensible staff. I am quite devastated by their staff. I ll start my process as soon as I find a better clinic, as I am thinking to switch now.
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