During my first marriage i miscarried for 3 times.I always had complications while getting pregnant.Now i’m married for second time at the age of 43. Having a look at my previous pregnancies i guess it is not a good idea to be pregnant again. So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready to go for it if we will have a baby of our own DNA.
So i started looking out for good clinics regarding surrogacy.I researched over the web and found many clinics regarding surrogacy.
While having a look at best known clinics for surrogacy i came across a name of clinic many times. Having very good positive reviews.So i contacted that clinic and told them about my issue.They said they will help us in every possible way.They told me about their procedure and they will help us in every aspect. They told us that we can have baby of our own DNA sample. Surrogate mother will not have any effect on our child. She will just keep our child in her womb. The clinic will find a good surrogate for our baby. They will test her and will analyze if she can carry our child in her womb or not.
If someone has some experience regarding surrogacy let me know your experience than.

Many parents are somewhat uncomfortable discussing conception and birth with their children . And when a child’s birth story involves the social, emotional, medical and legal complexities of surrogacy. The conversation can seem especially overwhelming. However, surrogacy is an important part of your child’s story. And experts agree that it is important to be honest with your children about their surrogacy story from the beginning. Continue to tell your child’s story in a simple and straightforward way as he or she grows. Even if your child does not fully understand the topics of conception, birth and surrogacy. This will help lead to a natural understanding of the surrogacy process as your child gets older and becomes more aware. You may want to talk with them about how babies come into the world and how some people need extra help to make that happen. Explain that families are built in many ways. Including through adoption. With the help of doctors and medicine, and through surrogacy.

I can completely understand the situation. It’s difficult to tell your child about the truth .but we can’t hide it for a long time .if we hide it somebody else tells him or her .so it’s better to speak the truth .take your child in confidence and tells them the whole story .trust me they will understand it completely.

Really nice post. Really agree with you. Many people have confusion in their mind that whether they should tell truth or not. I think they should tell their children that they are surrogates. No doubt its so hard to tell your child the truth. But at any stage, they will get to know, maybe from someone else. Instead of they know from any other family member, it’s better to them by yourself. We should not tell them directly. Tell them when they are mature enough. When they are able to understand things. First, tell them why you needed to go for surrogacy. And what surrogacy is. It will help you to understand them in the better way. I also have the surrogate child of nine months. I am also making myself ready to for that. I am preparing myself that how I will tell her.

Hey Tiffany. Hope you’re doing well. You’ve raised such an important point. This is a really important discussion. I’m glad you gave your opinion on it as well. I’m also all in for telling your baby the truth. It’s so important to do so. What if, god-forbid, they struggle with infertility? We know how hard it was. The journey towards surrogacy was a nightmare, so many issues. Do we want our children to go through that? Surely not. It’s important to make them realize that it’s not a big deal. All we can hope for is that the world will become a better and more understanding place. Thank you for posting this!

Truly, I agree. The kids have appropriate to think about it. A few guardians believe that perhaps surrogacy is a dishonourable procedure. So they dont tell their babies that how they were gotten the world. Besides, a few people imagine that possibly their kids will begin disliking them. I do not concur with them. It is not shameful. I have faced infertility for 10 years that made me go for surrogacy. I figure individuals should educate their infants regarding their introduction to the world. It is neither disgraceful process nor the infants will loathe them. It is essential, to be straightforward with them.

Thank you for an informative post. Surrogacy is like a blessing for the intended parents. It is an amazing thing in the journey of infertile couples. Having a baby through the surrogacy is also a blessing. So we should be honest with our child. Tell them the true story of the birth. But it needs an appropriate time and age. It will be an interesting story for baby. Prepare your baby from the start of the story.