The probability of finding everything you want in one egg donor is low. Intended parents are encouraged to approach the experience with an open mind. The egg donors should be smart, giving and caring women who want to help you achieve your dream of building your family. Through the egg donor database. Intended parents can filter egg donors by hair color, height, age, eye color, weight, education, experience, and ethnicity—the possibilities are endless. Others choose donors who look like the parent who isn’t biologically connected to the child. For example, if you have dark hair and blue eyes. You may want to choose an egg donor based on those criteria. Some intended parents choose based on personal interests, talents, personality, or intellect. Many times we counsel parents to find an egg donor who could “fit in” with the family and has similar traits to the intended parents.