storm, first of all, I am really sorry for your loss. That’s the reason for your disappearance from forums. I was thinking that why stormy is not coming to the forum. If it is fearful then it is also successful. It is human nature than he gives his attention to those things that have a negative impact. He doesn’t care of about the success stories. Even if the success rate is high than negative impacts then he will keep on focusing on negative impact. It’s natural. We cannot change human nature. If you want to be a successful person and wants your life enjoyable then don’t focus on the negative side. Forget about the negative side. I know this is not possible but tries make man perfect. Go outside and build confidence. don’t listen to those who have a failure.