Your post brings tears to my eyes. I am sorry for what you are going through nowadays. I can understand your pain. I was also infertile due to some reason. But now I am a mother of the surrogate baby. I don’t want you to suffer from this pain. Is it that important to you what others think? I think you shouldn’t even bother these type of people. Just let them speak. Ignore such society. Discuss with your doctor and go for surrogacy or IVF. I am sure you will have your own biological child. It does not mean you can have your biological child if only you give birth to him. You can have biological resemblance through surrogacy or IVF too. Good luck.