I don’t think you should stress too much about this. SUrogcay is a great process. I think you’ll be very happy once you go through it. It’s one of the best sure shot ways to get your child amongst all other assistive conceiving methods. Choosing the right clinic is definitely key. I would suggest looking for some in Europe. Not Lotus or Adonis though. Hearing bad reviews of theirs. Such a scam. They don’t even care to reply properly. However, you’ll do great with finding others in the area. It’s a lot cheaper there compared to America. In the end, you’ll be very happy. Good luck with all that you go through!