Wow, you are doing a great job. This is so thoughtful of you. Thanks for the lovely post. People are scared of it mostly. Most of the times due to seeing cases like Baby M. It doesn’t happen all the time. Strict contracts are being signed between the two parties these days. The main key is finding a reliable surrogate. You cant really trust anyone with your baby. I would prefer a relative to be my surrogate. In that way, I would have more trust over my surrogate. I hope you are getting my point. People really don’t have to be scared. the clinics are taking care of this issue these days. It’s completely safe.