Helo dear. I am sorry for your loss. I can feel your pain. Because I was also in the same boat some times ago. I have had surrogacy from a clinic in Europe. I will suggest yo the same. If you go for surrogacy it will still give you your own biological child. IVF would be more painful. Else, IVF has fewer chances of success. Whereas, surrogacy has guaranteed to be successful. But it depends on a clinic which you choose. I will suggest to you any clinic in Eastern Europe. May you complete your family soon. Good luck. Take care.