Need Some Guidance!
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July 11, 2018 at 11:44 am #4722AnonymousInactive
Hello Alsa, we are also fine hoping that you are also doing good with your life. I am so sorry to hear that you got three miscarriages. That’s awful and depressing to listen to this kind of statement. Miscarriage is a big loss, but infertility is a loss that can’t be forgotten ever. It’s a fact that miscarriages take a lot from us and leave us blindfolded. Remember Alsa, you have got a good chance from God to make your life happy and proud. Life has ups and downs, but a courageous person always finds some good in any situation. Just be positive and try to go with the surrogacy or IVF treatment. I hope you are now motivated to move on. Sending you baby dust and best wishes.July 11, 2018 at 11:47 am #4723aanaParticipant
Hey Alsa! how are you dear? You are really a brave lady. I am happy that you made it through accident. Don’t worry dear if one door closes other is always there. I hope your husband can understand your pain. Your feelings whatever they are is valid. It’s not your fault. You can opt the other options like IVF and surrogacy. There are some good clinics that are dealing with infertility. I also went through IVF process. The doctors were so cooperative and amazing. They give me the courage to do so. My first attempt was successful. I think you should go to that clinic and take the proper checkups. The clinic is in eastern Europe. Good luck.July 11, 2018 at 1:37 pm #4729AnonymousInactive
I just hope everything is okay with you. Your bad experience made me sad. The disappointing thing is that your husband is giving you divorce. It would be life taking for you. Dear, you are not alone in this journey. My friend has also faced such consequences. She was TTC for more than ten years. She tried many treatments but nothing worked. Even her family made fun of her infertility and never supported her. She hardly convinced her husband to try surrogacy treatment. Surrogacy is a very famous treatment with high success rates. But the clinic she opted offered her surrogacy at low prices. That’s why she went to Adonis Clinic for having surrogacy. But they did not examine surrogate carefully. She miscarried the child after some period of time. Now, she has lost all her hopes. Just pray for her future now!July 11, 2018 at 4:39 pm #4738
Hey, there I hope you are fine. Am sorry to know about your bad experience. This society is so sick. They always blame women. We all know its all natural and can be happen to anyone. Still, they blame women? Why? Am so sorry that you are getting divorced. Be a strong dear. You are not the only one. There are many women out there who are facing these issues. Yes, my dear, you should look for alternatives. These artificial treatments like surrogacy are the best solution for infertile women. You should go for it. Clinics in Europe are prominent in this regard. But there are scammers too who are just looting people’s money. Be aware of Lotus and Adonis, I have heard many bad reviews of them. My good wishes and prayers are with you. God bless you.July 12, 2018 at 2:14 pm #4771riana11Participant
Hi dear, I am really sorry for your problems. It was an extremely hard time for you. I know how it feels when you suffer from failure. My sister was infertile. She contacted Adonis clinic for that. They behaved very nice in the beginning. Then they collected all her money and didn’t give a response to her calls. They are scammers. She was so disappointed with their behavior. She never gives up. She is finding another good clinic for her treatment. I will recommend you that clinic soon after her successful treatment. Dear don’t lose hope. I wish you a very good future ahead. My best wishes are with you. Baby dust to youJuly 14, 2018 at 8:12 am #4800AnonymousInactive
I just hope you are doing great. You loss made me sad. It gets so much depressing when no one is there to support you. It would be heart-wrenching for you to go through such circumstances. However, you’d be strong and motivated to face any type of consequences. I would like to suggest you the surrogacy treatment. I have also gone through surrogacy treatment. I’m young now and my eggs are good enough to be fertilized. I miscarried my child when I was six months pregnant. It was life taking for me when the doctor declared me infertile. I was almost about to lose hope when my DH told me that we are going for surrogacy. Our doctor suggested us a prominent clinic in Europe. Due to its high success rates and professional behavior, we went there. Surrogacy has proven to be a blessing to me. It has totally changed my life. Well, wishing you all the best!July 14, 2018 at 3:31 pm #4824Julia ChristineParticipant
Hey Alsa! How are you? I really felt so sad to know about the time you spent. Such wounds take time to heal. People are taking so much help from alternatives then why don’t you? There are some methods like surrogacy or IVF. I think you should go for it. There is a clinic in Europe which is best regardings surrogacy. A friend had her surrogacy from there. I also heard so many great reviews about them. I think you should consult them. I hope they would help you.
All my sympathies are with youJuly 14, 2018 at 3:52 pm #4830
Hey there how are you? Hope you are fine and doing great. Your post really made me sad. You had gone through many hard times. I can feel your pain. Being infertile and not able to conceive naturally is a very difficult phase of women life. It is very hard to cope with. Am sad that these issues are affecting your life. I also had faced these circumstances. I went for surrogacy treatment. Europe is great in this regard. You should visit them for alternative methods. Yes, Emma is right. These people are amazing in this field. Things are going to be fine. Be hopeful and positive. God bless you.July 14, 2018 at 4:51 pm #4836Charlotte_HarrisParticipant
Hi Alsa. Your story is really very heartbreaking. I am feeling really very sorry for you. All my sympathies are with you. My dear, don’t lose hope and try again. I also had the worst experience regarding infertility t in my life. After struggling for many years, I finally decided to go to Lotus clinic but they behaved so bad with me. I become hopeless at that time and did not go for anything then. But my husband motivated me so much and I decided to go the for another clinic. Finally, I finally conceived my first child and now I am a mother of a baby girl. Don’t lose hope and try again. Wish you the best of luck.July 14, 2018 at 5:28 pm #4841smash12Participant
I am sorry for your loss. I know I cant feel your pain. Because you are not only facing infertility but also your marriage issues as well. It is not your fault. Your husband must support you. But if you can save your marriage by just having a child. Then, Yes you should go in alternate ways. There are a lot of ways like surrogacy or IVF. You can opt for any of them. I hope you will be out of this problem soon. There are a lot of clinics in Eastern Europe. You must check reviews of the clinic first. Then contact them. Good luck.July 23, 2018 at 1:40 pm #5111AnonymousInactive
I hope everything is happening well with you. Your loss has made me sad. It breaks the heart when even your DH doesn’t support you. I can have an idea about how much it breaks the heart. All you can do is to stay strong. I’m sure you’ll get a cure from it one day. I opted for surrogacy treatment to overcome my infertility. Surrogacy really pays off. It’s doubtlessly a great blessing of science. Also, surrogacy clinics are doing great in this regard. A prominent clinic in Europe has high success rates. They are providing the guarantee about the success in treatment. That’s the reason Europe is enjoying a good reputation. I must say that every infertile individual should go there. Sending baby dust to all!July 23, 2018 at 2:32 pm #5113GenySmith1Participant
Hey, Dear, it is painful to hear about your hard time. Your story makes me feel crying inside. Ups and Downs are part of life and sometimes it took so long to cope up with them. It seems good that you didn’t give up and you are looking for treatments. Surrogacy is the best solution to your problem. All you need is to do some effort by your self. you should also go for searching best solution as well. There are many clinics and many people discussing this issue on many forums. In Europe, there are many clinics with high success rate. you should study about them and if you need any help I am available here, I want to share as much knowledge with you as I have shared with other friends.July 23, 2018 at 3:19 pm #5117
Hi Alsa, Am really sorry to know about your story. You had gone through very hard times. Life sometimes becomes very hard. It tests us very badly and we can’t do anything. Its good to see that you didn’t give up and are looking for treatments. Infertility is indeed the very difficult phase of women life. But there is a solution to every problem. All you need is to do some effort. Surrogacy is the best treatment to get rid of infertility. It will surely help you. There is a clinic in Europe with very good reviews and high success rates. They are best in this regard. You should visit them. I hope things will be alright very soon. God bless you.July 23, 2018 at 4:09 pm #5137smash12Participant
Helo dear. I am sorry for your loss. I can feel your pain. Because I was also in the same boat some times ago. I have had surrogacy from a clinic in Europe. I will suggest yo the same. If you go for surrogacy it will still give you your own biological child. IVF would be more painful. Else, IVF has fewer chances of success. Whereas, surrogacy has guaranteed to be successful. But it depends on a clinic which you choose. I will suggest to you any clinic in Eastern Europe. May you complete your family soon. Good luck. Take care.July 23, 2018 at 4:14 pm #5139TifannyParticipant
You should be confident of the Doctor’s experience, and how long he has been performing the procedures that will affect your case there. You should also be given full attention while at the clinic and not feel like just a number. You will need to be comfortable, relaxed and confident in the clinic and their ability to help you achieve a pregnancy. You will want to have access to the staff when you have a question, and have a prompt response when a problem or concern arises. Another important factor for many people when choosing a clinic is cost. Some factors to consider are the costs of fertility drugs, which can cost thousands of dollars; ICSI; assisted embryo hatching; embryo cryopreservation; and preimplantation genetic diagnosis (PGD). These drugs and procedures can quickly increase the overall cost for treatment. You should not choose a Center based solely on its statistics, but be sure that the clinic you are choosing has a high rate above the national average.
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