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July 7, 2018 at 2:19 pm #4396Alsa MarkleParticipant
Hello everyone, I hope everything is going well in your lives. Well, I just wanted to share my sorrows with you. And wanted to have some suggestions. I am 43. And had 3 miscarriages. Well, the last one was the most difficult one to handle and admit. Because that miscarriage made me infertile. Yes, I lost the baby in a road accident. I was so near to death. But fate made me survive. But I am not living a good life since that night. Everything just went with that. And now only negativity and loss is left. I want to stand up but my loss is so great that doesn’t let this happen. I am so alone. My husband is giving me a divorce. Should I go for alternatives? Which would be a clinic for this? I don’t know anything. I want you all to help me and take me out of this.
July 7, 2018 at 4:58 pm #4410Felicia SazParticipantHi. I’m really sorry for you. I know of a good fertility clinic that you can go to. Don’t worry. All your problems will be solved soon. Just stay hopeful. You should can’t that clinic soon to start your procedure of surrogacy. Good luck.
July 7, 2018 at 5:19 pm #4414Jessica fieldsParticipantI am so sorry you had to go through all this. It must be a tough time for you. Your husband did not do good with you too. He should have supported you. Though you can still go for other options. Chose a fertility clinic You can opt for Surrogacy there. Though don’t opt for Adonis. They won’t reply on time.
July 7, 2018 at 7:19 pm #4427kim01ParticipantHi. I am so sorry. I know this is so hard. Children are a blessing. Every woman wants them. But don’t lose hope. You will be a mom soon. You should go for the alternative. Surrogacy is the best option. I was infertile. I have faced infertility for many years. In the end, I chose surrogacy. I have a baby now. I have no more worries. I am a happy mother. If you want to be happy then go for it.
July 7, 2018 at 7:44 pm #4432milaParticipantReally sad to know. I am so sorry for you. It is really sad. I hope you will be a mom soon. You should go for the best treatment. Infertility is hard to overcome. I know this is hard for you. Don’t worry. I think surrogacy is the best option. It is a safe procedure. You should go for it. I hope you will go for it. it is not painful at all. If you want a baby so go for it. I will pray for you.
July 7, 2018 at 8:50 pm #4439Julia ChristineParticipantHey Alsa! I felt so sad to know about the situation you are dealing with right now. It’s really a tough time for you. I think you should go for alternatives. People are also getting so much help from it then why don’t you. I hope it will be fruitful for you.
All my sympathies are with youJuly 7, 2018 at 11:38 pm #4448AnonymousInactiveHello Alsa. I am sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. But do not lose hope. It is so disheartening to see that you went through 3 miscarriages, and have become infertile.
I think you should if you can. There are so many options out there. You can go for IVF or even surrogacy, both are amazing treatments. Just do not give up hope. I think it would be best to go for surrogacy. Though, I haven’t been through the process myself. But I have heard a lot about surrogacy in Ukraine. I think Ukraine is an ideal option for having a child through surrogacy. Not only are they not that expensive, but the clinics also provide best services. There are a number of clinics all over the country, some are really professional and focused on their clients like Biotexcom, while others are not. I really hope you find your happy ending.July 8, 2018 at 4:53 am #4455Nelly KomParticipantHi there, Alsa! I hope you’re feeling any better now. I’m very sorry to read about your miscarriages and then infertility. There isn’t any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. You lost 3 of them, this is literally very upsetting. Infertility is surely a curse and now you’re 43. I’d advise you to go for surrogacy. It is the best alternative for you to have a child. It is a trending method in which your eggs and your husband’s sperms are fertilized in a laboratory. Then the embryo is transferred into another woman’s uterus. This woman is called a surrogate mother who carries your baby in her womb for 9 months. You can research for clinics in eastern Europe. There are very reasonable clinics with good services. Choose the one with high success rates and great reviews. Everything will be fine just don’t stress and never lose hope. Best of luck!
July 8, 2018 at 6:26 am #4459joshienParticipantHey there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. I know it must be really hard for you. I know it must hurt a lot. I know this because I have been through it. Miscarriages are devastating. You want the world to end. However, accidents don’t always repeat themselves. Don’t be afraid just be strong. Be positive and it’ll work out. I wish you good luck. take care. Hoping to hear more soon.
July 8, 2018 at 8:54 am #4471AnonymousInactiveHi there, hope you are doing okay. Sorry to hear about your loss. It must be hard for yo. I can imagine your pain. I have been gone through it. Miscarriages are very painful. You don’t want to live more. However life doesn’t stop. You have to stay strong. It is good for you if you go for other options. Surrogacy is a better option. it is indeed a miracle. Discuss it with your husband. I hope he will surely understand the situation. But don’t contact a low clinic like Adonis. My experience was very bad. I am facing infertility from 10 years. when i contacted them for infertility treatment they replied rudely. They also didn’t share any details regarding treatment with us. I think they are scam. beware of them. Good luck
July 8, 2018 at 9:17 am #4479monikaParticipantI hope you are alright. I am so sorry for your loss. It’s even sadder that your husband is planning to give you a divorce. I can understand how difficult it must have been. Just be strong and stay positive. I think you should definitely look into surrogacy. I have opted for is and so far everything is going amazing. It can be hard to go through infertility. It is a rough journey to be on! However, there are alternatives available that you can opt for. Surrogacy has proven to be a highly successful procedure. it has more than a 70% chance of success. For the process visit the right clinic. The clinic with a high success rate is where you should be going. Best of luck to you.
July 8, 2018 at 10:24 am #4486yusraParticipantYou don’t have to worry so much about it. There are many well-known clinics for surrogacy. According to my point of view, surrogacy is the optimal and most reasonable choice for you. I can understand the circumstances you are going through. Wish you good luck.
July 8, 2018 at 10:50 am #4489RoseParticipantHi. I am really sad for you. Miscarriages are very hard to overcome. No one deserves it. But, no one can change the fate. I would recommend you to go for surrogacy. I also was infertile. I had a fatigue injury. I was trying to conceive. Then I went to Europe for the best clinic. My colleague told me about that clinic. I am blessed with a baby now.
July 8, 2018 at 2:16 pm #4510riazoyerParticipantI am so sorry for you. It is really depressing. It must be hard for you. Don’t worry. I think you should go for surrogacy. It would be the best option for you. It is a safe procedure. You should go for it. I hope everything goes well for you. It is not painful at all. I will pray for you.
July 8, 2018 at 2:26 pm #4514emma joeParticipantHey, i hope you are awesome. Don’t worry there are alternatives. First you can choose the IVF and second is the surrogacy and the best clinic are in Ukraine. So, I’ll suggest you to not waste your time and money in some average clinic, visit Ukraine best clinic of the world BioTexCom with best services. Love for you <3 🙂
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