I am sorry for your loss. Have patience. It is not your fault. Mc is not easy to handle. I can feel your pain. I am also infertile. But your husband should stand with you. I don’t know why he is doing all this. Anyways, if alternate ways can save your life. Then, Yes you should opt for that. As per my experience, Surrogacy is the safest known procedure. IVF has fewer chances of success. Whereas, IVF is risky too. You can contact any clinic in Eastern Europe. Good luck. Keep e updated. Take care.