my own precious journey!
May 16, 2018 at 8:21 am #2161
Hello kindest people! No time for marry comes around! First of all I’d like to share my story.
Then I will be more patient. I like reading stories written by brave people. There are lots of such people in this battle for fertility.
Nevertheless, I met many of them. Some of them influenced my own history. I received their wisdom and inspiration. It’s always easier to walk the tested path.
I suffer from infertility. In fact I was healthy but one problem. The examination found big myoma growing and turning into something more serious.
After short exhausting treatment the experts decided to carry out surgery. In brief I’m now living without womb. My weight actually became lighter but my inner world changed totally.
Such things come to your life. You meet them carefully. Then they break everything you loved and relied on.
Boom! That’s all. You start thinking another way. The list of options you could use is too short.
That’s why we find surrogacy wonderful. It’s definitely wonderful if there’s nothing to do. It is my story.
My husband isn’t a doctor but he works at the hospital. He supplies hospitals with some stuff. He held his own investigation among gynecologists.
The advice was to make inquiries in Ukraine. We didn’t think too long! He took urgent vacation.
( I don’t work ) we bought tickets and flight to Ukraine. As we didn’t have particular spots on the map we visited several clinics.
I couldn’t know how many clinics are there. I meant those which deal with Infertility. It took three days.
Then we spent one more day in thinking. We decided, visited that clinic once again. My husband gave his sperm sample.
And we left from the country for the next time. Today! It’s the day of my babies’ mini birth day. I suppose a half birth day.
Today they are 6 month old. That’s absolutely incredible thing. All my dramas went off! I’m happy and ready to talk!May 16, 2018 at 8:45 am #2164
Excellent! I swear it has made my day. Your way is a definite example to follow.
How are your children now? It’s so sweet to know. Can you tell why you chose Ukraine?
Is it worth our best expectation? I trust you. All that you said was so wonderful.
My husband yells on me because I often got inspired on forums. He thinks it doesn’t make sense. I believe he’s mistaken because I really feel better.
Thank you for sharing! Your challenge was even more harrowing. I have my womb and ovaries present.
Another problem I can’t benefit from them. My pregnancy doesn’t happen. It’s such a big stress.
I heard much about Ukraine. It became something attractive to people searching for solution. I’m one of them.
My good old friend has just got her journey over. She’s also a mother. I saw her on skype she was shining with happiness.
I hope one day I’ll be happy the same. How such little angels can change the awful life! It’s beyond my comprehension.
Please, if you have spare time could you share more? I’m looking forward to knowing more. Thank you for everything!May 16, 2018 at 10:45 am #2167
My babies are brilliant, thank you very much! I can’t get pleased enough. I want to freeze this moment.
They will never be little again. It’s amazing and hurtful at the same time. I so much love their fatty small fists and knees.
I just can’t express this adoration. They grow up too fast. Hey, someone can’t you stop this time?!
I’m joking. That’s just fine. Let them grow well.
Of course it’s worth trying. Why does anybody have doubt in it? For me it’s generally peaceful country.
That’s remarkable they are so kind to provide people with everything. There I didn’t even think where to buy food or something in Ukraine. Everything was previously well-arranged.
They let us manage only private issues. It was that we needed. I completely lost feeling of foreign environment.
We were fully provided with transport and care as well. That was gorgeous deal! I’m satisfied.
As for me pre-feeling, it was awful. I didn’t trust anyone. I felt very bad.
I collect only bad impressions. It was real depression. It’s a very unpleasant disease.May 16, 2018 at 12:33 pm #2169
Yeah, I know some people are close to commit suicide. When you’re in such mess you urgently need someone’s help. It’s too serious.
You’re such a great one. You overcame it relatively fast. I hope now all gonna be okay.
It’s so cute to know you are next to your babies. All the time you have this amazing opportunity. One thought of it makes me smile.
Why have they done so many arrangements? Is it because you bought maybe special offer? Did you have to pay for additional help?
Sometimes it’s incredibly difficult to start accepting even the Idea of surrogacy. You always stick to the thought another woman must carry your baby. She will share warmth and love with child.
It can kill any motivation. A woman wants to take part in life of her children. Especially when they just begin living she must participate.
This fact is still unbearable for me. How did you choose your surrogate? I guess it was super tough casting.
Which parameters were in priority? I just can’t imagine how it was hard. You are in another country.
Your surrogate was there in Ukraine. How was it possible to maintain complete control? I hope it was not as worrisome as I described.May 16, 2018 at 12:44 pm #2170
No, in fact things are performed in another manner. Sure, I was always worried. It’s completely normal condition.
You are in the most serious deal of your life. Actually you feel nervous. However, something wasn’t like your description.
There wasn’t a casting at all. No need to spare your time for this. You aren’t the specialists to recognize the healthiest person.
It’s most important. It is essential to make sure your surrogate suits the necessary conditions. Only doctor could detect this.
In professional clinics you don’t select surrogates. Just think why you need it. Her outer features and temper won’t be passed to baby.
It’s a gestational surrogacy. Surrogate is just a container. I really beg your pardon.
It was apparently rude but I wanted to describe the general mechanism of it. She cares and carries but she doesn’t donate her egg. I know it can be a mental connection between mother and a baby.
It’s also we should consider. Anyway she knows where she got hired. Additionally she had to have her own healthy baby.
It makes some details less complicated. I guess it works exactly this way. Her baby is a confirmation of her biological capability.
As well as it helps her to not think much of her connection to our baby. She must sign up refusal. It’s not easily to take.May 16, 2018 at 12:54 pm #2171
Okay dear. I’ve just probably missed some sense. It was clinic’s rule, that’s fine.
When you trust your doctor you follow clinical requirements. It’s understandable. I know what gestational surrogacy means.
I myself always get troubled thinking about that magician connection between mom and kid. It’s kind of my problem. How will I awaken my baby’s feeling? Is it possible to compensate that link?
Also that makes sense your doctor matches surrogate. If her health is priority you must decide what it important for you. I suppose some couples want to select cutie-beauty on role of surrogate.
It’s like to order nice small house where the child will live in. you didn’t answer about arrangements. Is it common among Ukrainian clinics?May 16, 2018 at 1:22 pm #2172
I think it’s mostly common thing. No, it’s not good to say. It’s rather thing that makes clinic’s status solider.
My clinic arranged a person who meets people in airport. Even considering we knew how to get to them they did it. They also sent a driver who took us to the hotel.
We didn’t have the most expensive package of service. Despite that we felt as very important persons. Our payment for the whole program included our meal and transfers.
It was literally comfortable. You know schedule. I look at your watch then through the window and see a car ready to go.
I don’t know who organizes all this stuff but it easies the life. We also had opportunity to communicate with different people. It was very helpful.
I mean the people which had the same matters. We swap our impressions. After our children were born we got provided with apartment.
It’s lonelier because you live far from others. Anyway you have private housemaid. She prepares delicious food and keeps flat clean.
It was an inconvenient apartment in a big house. We had a park by the yard. It was a wonderful place where we could walk with stroller.
I’d like to add one more compliment. It wasn’t an agency. Our clinic is huge independent organization.
However it made everything needed to solve out paperwork issues. Its coordinators always ran across the city to order some papers. It was so kind from them.May 16, 2018 at 2:04 pm #2173AkiraParticipant
I’m sasha from Japan. We are settled in Japan from last few decades.
I had hysterectomy cancer. All of you should know its treatment and its result.As a result i was cancer free but for the lifetime i’m infertile now.So i was worried and tensed and than my husband came to know about surrogacy.Surrogacy is a method of raising a baby from someone’s else egg. I was amazed at this method but when i studied about it i was happy.Here in Japan it is totally prohibited.So we moved to Europe and roamed in Europe for sometime and contacted many clinics there. Than we heard about a clinic and we moved to Ukraine. It is a very good clinic and we consulted them.
They are the best they have best solution for us now.
Then we found a surrogate mom and we donated the eggs and now surrogate is carrying our twin daughters. Now when i sit alone i thank god that he is giving us two gifts in one time. We are so happy and excited to have our babies.
Please share your stories with me.May 16, 2018 at 2:37 pm #2175AnonymousInactive
TTC is the hardest period of a woman life. I was also trying to conceive from a long time. But had no luck with TTC. Although i conceived for 3 times but the miscarriages were in fate. My first husband left me and i was totally broke. Than i was in depression quitting my job and staying up last night. Now i am at an age of 43. I am going to be married again. I have told my husband everything about my complications regarding pregnancy. He is still willing to marry me. He says that he has consulted some good clinics regarding surrogacy and we will go for surrogacy to have a child. I had many complications regarding pregnancy. Now i am happy i have someone to support me. I have read about surrogacy from many people on this forum. People here have shared their stories of TTC. They also have shared their success stories of Surrogacy. I am now trying to know the experience of people about surrogacy. If someone has a recent experience of surrogacy than kindly share with me your experience. Thanks in advance.May 16, 2018 at 3:15 pm #2177kim01Participant
Hey. I hope you are doing fine. I know how much it would be painful for you. Yet you went through it and I hope you’ll have a wonderful life. Your story really inspired me and I hope it will be the inspiration for many other girls. I have a baby but I didnt give him birth. I had uterine polyps and later I was not able to carry a baby. I never knew that getting pregnant would be that much hard. We went to many clinics for fertility treatment. No luck. I was so hopeless. So I decided to go for the unnatural way. I chose surrogacy for me. I went to Europe for it. Today I am a happy mother and I am living happily with my family. I am planning to have another baby.May 16, 2018 at 3:45 pm #2182milaParticipant
Hello. I know the amount it would be difficult for you. However, you experienced it and I trust you’ll have a brilliant life. Your story extremely roused me and I seek it will be the motivation for numerous different young ladies. I have a child, however, I didnt give him birth. I have faced infertility for 10 years. In this span of time, I went for IUI and IVF but nothing happened. No good fortune. I was so sad. So I chose to go for surrogacy for me. Today I am a glad mother and I am living joyfully with my family. I am intending to have another child. For surrogacy, I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic was renown for its success. I hope you will be a mother soon.May 16, 2018 at 3:47 pm #2184Joanne SilviaParticipant
Hey! What a story. Wow. This is some journey, haha. I feel so happy sitting here. This has genuinely just made me feel a whole lot better about my own process. This post is a mood uplifter, guys! You really made the best choice going to that clinic. They have a great success rate. I’m really delighted that it worked for you as well. I’m sure you guys would be thrilled. I am, myself, going through the process of surrogacy. I really hope I can share my good news with everyone. It’s fast becoming a dream to post about my future*(fingers crossed) baby. Thank you so much for sharing this!May 16, 2018 at 5:22 pm #2190Felicia SazParticipant
Hi. How are you? Thanks for sharing this with us. It will surely help people who are opting for surrogacy right now. I had my son through surrogacy too. I went to Ukraine for it. My experience was great.May 17, 2018 at 4:42 pm #2203ezabelParticipant
Hey! How are you doing? I must say you explained your life such beautifully. That I could never do that.
It felt such pleasure to know about your experience and your successful surrogacy journey.
I just can imagine what feeling it would be. Carrying baby in your arms. This is such a Bliss!
Yeah! Each one has to face some difficult times in lives. But we have to observe bit much. Because of being infertile.
But all thanks to such procedures for existing, they make us feel that even we can be mothers and that empty feeling could be filled with the love of little life.
Somewhere near I would be considering this treatment. As I am sick and tired of this infertile life. And I wish to have a similar experience as you had.
Fingers crossed.May 17, 2018 at 4:42 pm #2204Jessica fieldsParticipant
This is such an inspirational story. You described everything in detail. It will give some motivation to others. It will give them hope. Surrogacy is indeed an amazing procedure. It is a blessing in disguise. It is the last ray of hope for those who cannot conceive. I think I know the clinic you mentioned. I have read a lot about it. There are many youtube videos on it as well. I have heard the staff is very friendly there. They are trained in multiple languages. The doctors are friendly. Also, the clinic provides a place to stay. They even give food. Tell me did you experience all this? I am thinking to recommend this to my friend.
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