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August 1, 2018 at 5:00 pm #5430AnonymousInactive
Hello. I’m the daily visitor of this froum. How are you all? When i’m suffering from infertility. Doctors tells me that A****s clinic is best for the treatment. This can give you a best treatment. They can work hard for the patients. Then, i visit this clinic. This clinic is very bad and dirty. Their straff members didn’t know that how to talk with th patients. So, Doctors are good i think. But my thinking is negative here. Doctors are not qualified. They didn’t wash their hands after the check up of the patients. They are very ugly. They didn’t follow the rules. They can break the all rules.
August 3, 2018 at 10:40 am #5469Chloe MagParticipantThis is a very interesting discussion. I am a big supporter of surrogacy. Now a days it has become very popular. But only a few people know what it actually entails. It is very important to be guided in the right direction when opting for surrogacy. I had the misfortune of choosing A****s clinic in Ukraine and their conduct was very nonprofessional. I was very disappointed with their unresponsiveness towards all my mails and calls. They wasted so much of my time and i was already very low emotionally during the days. Fighting infertility is difficult enough but to top it with dealing with scammers is draining. I totally hate those people who try to exploit the others weaknesses. So I would say surrogacy has more pros than cons when you know what you are doing.
August 6, 2018 at 12:35 pm #5522nayaParticipantYes, you are very right about it. Surrogacy is a blessing for those who can afford. It’s exactly my point. You have highlighted another important point in your post. That it should be legal also. Yes, I have seen in many countries surrogacy is banned. Many people are moving to Europe for their treatments. There is a good clinic in Europe. They are dealing with these treatments in a wonderful way. Their services are really less expensive. So dear it really doesn’t mean that all clinics are very expensive. There are many clinics who are treating at a reasonable cost. So you must go there. It will be best for you. Wish you best of luck for that. My best wishes are with you
August 6, 2018 at 5:40 pm #5530Martina JohnParticipantHey Charlos! You are right to some extent. But such methods are so complicated. That’s why it is expensive. But expenses vary according to the country. There are some clinics in Europe that are providing such facilities on a comparably low cost. Even I had my surrogacy there. They are skilled and experienced in this field. Their facilities are great. They have their own surrogate mothers and helping infertile couples a lot in this regard. So I think people should look for some better option.
August 6, 2018 at 7:22 pm #5538AlinaParticipantHello all. This is very informative knowledge with you. That can guide you that how you can spend the life in future in good way. There are so many stones in our lives. But if we are strong health, then these stones are broken by us. When, I’m suffering from surrogacy, then I become very disheart. But I can hear about the clinic named L****s clinic. This is so far from my home. Then I want to send the email. Then I can send too many emails to this clinic. But they didn’t reply of any single one. This is the bad effect of the clinic. But, I can never lose the hope and try to search another good clinic for better treatment.
August 7, 2018 at 10:47 am #5557AnonymousInactiveI also take stand for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing. It gives hope to many infertile couples. It brings happiness to the life of many families. My cousin was infertile. She loses hope. Someone recommended her a good clinic in Europe. She was not ready for it. With her husband support, she agrees to give it a try. It was the best clinic in Europe. They suggested her surrogacy. They are best in dealing with it. She is now a mother of a baby boy. So I do think with this experience that surrogacy is indeed a blessing for many people. My best wishes are with you.
August 7, 2018 at 6:05 pm #5585Julia ChristineParticipantYou are right to some extent. Surrogate should be paid well. She bears the whole process and in return she got nothing. Maybe it’s due it’s up to the clinic how much they pay to their surrogate. But certain well-reputed clinics have different policies. There are some clinics in Europe that are the best for their facilities. They look after their surrogate and also provide accommodation to the surrogate as well as to the intended parents. And cost varies from country to country or the reputation of the clinic. Europe is full of great clinics. I think people should consult them. Their facilities are amazing.
August 29, 2018 at 2:27 pm #6427AnonymousInactiveHello there! How are you? Well, that’s a good topic. So many people. As many views. Because it is a controversial topic. Some say that surrogate mothers only take it as a business. They care only about money. Even if they do all these negative things, then what? Theyvare only humans. They are lending you their womb. They have every right to a compensation. And they should get that. I happily paid my surrogate. Jo judgement or anything involved.
August 29, 2018 at 2:28 pm #6428AnonymousInactiveStay blessed.
August 29, 2018 at 3:51 pm #6450VictoriaParticipantHey! Thanks for this post. You’ve highlighted some important things. You’re right about what you said. Surrogacy sure is beautiful. I think we shouldn’t shun it. It’s costly too as you said. However, there are clinics abroad that offer it at a better price. Surrogacy is essentially a means for infertile people to get children. Not only that but it is better than adoption becuase of the genetic connection you’re able to have. I think people considering should definitely go for it. They won’t be disappointed. Good luck to you all.
August 29, 2018 at 6:18 pm #6482HaileyParticipantHello! A debt of gratitude is in order for this post. You’ve featured some vital things. You’re correct about what you said. Surrogacy beyond any doubt is delightful. I figure we shouldn’t evade it. It’s exorbitant as well as you said. In any case, there are facilities abroad that offer it at a superior cost. Surrogacy is basically a method for barren individuals to get kids. That as well as it is superior to adoption becuase of the hereditary association you’re ready to have. I think individuals considering should put it all on the line. They won’t be upset. Good fortunes to all of you.
August 29, 2018 at 6:59 pm #6510KathrynRoebuckParticipantHey there! i totally agree with you. Surrogacy is a blessing. But it can be misused as well. People can use it for advantage. And can also use it for disadvantage. If there is a facility that has patient welfare in mind, it’ll do good. But the one that ony talks business might do more harm than good. So you gotta be smart about these things. One of such facilities is Lotus clinic. Crappy service. Money is their only agenda. All they want is cash. They are not concerned with people. Not at all.
August 29, 2018 at 7:22 pm #6522Dakota QuinnParticipantYou have touched on such an important topic. I always wonder about this. I am planning on going for surrogacy. So this is something that matters a lot to me. I do not want to do something which might end up hurting someone. I know pregnancy is not an easy thing.
I think this is why we need better laws and regulations. Surrogacy is an amazing option, there is no doubt about this. At the same time, we need to understand where the rights of intended parents and surrogates end. Such situations should be avoided. Surrogates should be taken care of and not treated as a vessel. These women who are willing to carry a baby for others are just amazing. I believe they should not be exploited and they should not be ripped off. It is something they are doing to help themselves. Thank you for sharing this.August 30, 2018 at 2:20 am #6560ShirleyholmanParticipantHello there! Everything you said is true. People have to chose what is good and what is bad. Because a knife can be used to cut vegetables and to cut throats. Choice is in the hands of the one holding the knife. Life is always that way. It offers us choices. What we chose differentiates us. Take the example of Adonis. That clinic is such a great example of a pathetic fertility center. No good facilities. No proper care. Rude staff. Never have I ever seen a place so disorganized. agghhh. I hate that clinic.
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