Community Forum

we are losing it

Home › Forums › Surrogacy › Getting Started › we are losing it

Viewing 9 posts - 31 through 39 (of 39 total)
1 2 3
  • Author
    Posts
  • April 4, 2018 at 8:07 pm #1709
    ClayJones
    Participant

    Hey there Berta. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry that you had to go through all this. I hope you stay strong. IVF is great. You should go for it. It’ll give you your happiness back. I wish you good luck. Take care.

    April 5, 2018 at 3:02 pm #1718
    NINA
    Participant

    I believe you are fine. Infertility is not a sin. you should not make your life hell because of it. People have been making their lives hell. They should not do that. This problem is given to anyone by God. It is not in the hands of a human. But humans have made certain advancements to help them solve their problems. Surrogacy is one of the solutions. People who have been through it are now happy. My friend is infertile. She was unable to have her own baby. She came to know about surrogacy. She went for it and now is having a baby boy. I have never seen her much happier in my life. She and her DH are happy. Their life is now full of joy. Hope you choose what is best for you.

    April 5, 2018 at 5:22 pm #1727
    ezabel
    Participant

    Hey!
    Your words made me feel like someone is exactly portraying my story.
    You are right this is very crucial decision of your life.
    Relationships are being acted so sensitive that we feel worthless to even save it.
    No matter how much you are struggling. No matter what worries you are going on.
    You just need that one thing in your life.
    To get your life back to make your relationship strong.
    To make your place in society and what not.
    Too tiring yet too frustrated.
    I won’t ask you to stop for anything.
    If you are looking to get IVF or surrogacy done go for it.
    If you are found to be good for these.
    Get yourself the best clinic where you find individuals that understand the worth of your desires.
    Baby dust to you. XX

    April 5, 2018 at 6:39 pm #1732
    hailey johnson
    Participant

    You have been going through such a hard time. You should not lose hope. It is so nice of you to share your story over here. Your story will surely give hope to a lot of people. There are many like you. I had two miscarriages after marriage. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then my husband and I started looking for alternatives. We found surrogacy. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now we are blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I hope everyone gets blessed with children. Love!

    April 10, 2018 at 5:30 pm #1815
    ezabel
    Participant

    Nothing matters more than your happiness and to fill up that empty space in your life.
    that’s what you deserve. You deserve to carry a child in your arm. and for that what option you might pick would be the correct one.
    Either IVF or surrogacy no matter what you adopt you adopt for good. and this will would get you the happiness you are seeking for so long. you just have to trust in your struggle and your destiny.
    Initially, I was found to be questionable among people who conceived naturally. But I believe as soon as I would be blessed with parenthood through surrogacy. The world would understand my sentiments and no one would question then.
    Saying all this has just a single meaning and that is never considered surrogacy or IVF a false thing.Just go for this.you would soon find your happiness somewhere soon.
    Fingers crossed.

    April 10, 2018 at 5:37 pm #1819
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Do you think it matters how this baby is born? What’s more important to you? Having a child or worrying about what the society would think of it? I think these questions are all you need to ask yourself. Your heart knows the answer better than anyone of us. I had surrogacy and I know I made the best decision.

    April 11, 2018 at 4:46 pm #1836
    Anna enrique
    Participant

    Hey. Don’t worry about it. Children are a great blessing. But this is not in your fate. Don’t take stress everything will be fine. If you cannot conceive a child you have many other options like surrogacy. Don’t think this is an unnatural way. This is the only way you can have your own babies. I wish you best of luck.

    April 11, 2018 at 5:29 pm #1845
    aina
    Participant

    Hello!!! Alas!! It is so sad what are you facing. Anyone can be tired off. This is the human phenomenon to have wanted thing as early as possible. But you should Not give up. just try it again and again. God will bless you when there come a right time for you. consult a fertility clinic as well. IVF is a very good solution for TTC. Looking forward to your positive post. Good luck

    April 11, 2018 at 6:48 pm #1855
    chicago
    Participant

    Berta Rose, it’s not the wastage of time. some things take time to happen. Just as you are having. You are waiting for the right time. you will get fruit at the right time when you will be in need of it. just believe in yourself. Never let yourself down for getting things. This hurry can put you in a terrible situation.

  • Author
    Posts
Viewing 9 posts - 31 through 39 (of 39 total)
1 2 3
  • You must be logged in to reply to this topic.