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March 11, 2018 at 7:56 pm #1092elliejohnParticipant
Just relaxed Berta. I know it’s not an easy situation. But getting stressed can increase your infertility level and you can become sick. Listen, there is a solution to every problem here. A number of methods are there. If you can’t conceive naturally then go for these procedures. Like IUI. IVF and nowadays very common surrogacy. So, sit calmly and decide what you should go for. You will be successful soon. All the best.
March 11, 2018 at 8:45 pm #1093chicagoParticipantBerta, I read your whole post and it disturbs me. I was thinking about you. it’s a more depressed feeling. I have gone through this. It’s a time where you can’t see what is true and what is wrong with you. everybody has a different suggestion for you. in this difficult phase you can’t make a decision or can filter out that who is your friend and who is playing trick with you. even doctors don’t think sometimes for the betterment of his patient. They just think about the money. How to make money more and more form this patient.? This is not usual but happens. This is world and we can expect everything awkward can happen. If your doctor is sincere to you. then admit his advice and think about it deeply. Otherwise, seek suggestion from others whom you have trust.
March 12, 2018 at 5:45 pm #1094AnonymousInactiveDon’t worry dear.
There is a solution to every problem today.
If you are unable to have a baby from your own womb then why not you go for surrogacy.
Surrogacy is the most common method of having a baby with your own DNA.
Don’t lose any hope dear i’m also 43 years old and i have also no luck with kids.
I had many complications regarding pregnancy.I conceived for 3 times but resulted in miscarriages every time.So i also gave up on getting pregnant again and again.I researched over the web for different methods of having babies and i came across surrogacy.Surrogacy is a good solution for mothers like us who can’t have a baby of their own.While researching about surrogacy i came across a clinic many times.There are very positive reviews about it over the internet.
So i contacted the clinic and told them my complications they answered my all questions.They cleared my misunderstanding about the surrogacy.
So now i am ready to go for the surrogacy method.
I have persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy.He is ready if we can have a baby via surrogacy of our own DNA’s.
The clinic will find a good surrogate for our baby.
If someone has any review and suggestion for surrogacy please let us know.So that we can learn from you.March 13, 2018 at 3:37 pm #1099kim01ParticipantHey girl! don’t worry about it. Although children are a great blessing. But this is not in your hands. Don’t take stress everything will be fine. If you cannot conceive a child you have many other options like surrogacy. Don’t think this is an unnatural way. This is the only way you can have your own babies.
March 16, 2018 at 1:02 pm #1138Felicia SazParticipantHey Berta. I know how you feel. When you are considering these ways, it is normal to have such thoughts. But everyone deserves a child, Berta. This isn’t a way to sneak your child. It is a little nudge that can help you have what you want. And that is a baby. Just relax. These negative thought will do nothing but make you feel more unsure about this.
March 16, 2018 at 7:24 pm #1146AnonymousInactiveI am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own.
I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback.
There are very good clinics regarding surrogacy as i’m sharing my experience with all of you.
For now i have convinced mt husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too.
You should also have a look at clinics regarding surrogacy.
I contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions.
I suggest you to go for this clinic and atleast you should contact them and share your problem with them so that they can propose a better solution for you.
As they suggested surrogacy option for us.
Now they are looking for a good woman for our baby who can carry our baby in her womb for 9 months.
They will find a good female with all clear tests so that we don’t have to face any issue later.
But i am worried about somethings also.
But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us.
Positive feedback will be appreciated.March 17, 2018 at 3:52 pm #1155kim01ParticipantHey, hope you are doing fine. It’s good you are finally choosing something good for you. But I am not in favor of IVF. It is not much successful process at least in my case. I have gone through 3 miscarriages. My family doctor suggested me IVF. So I decided to go for it. It is so painful procedure and I faced failure in the second cycle. I was so disappointed and heartbroken. So someone suggested me surrogacy. They explained everything about surrogacy and also about a clinic in Ukraine. The baby would belong to the expecting parents. the clinic provides all information about surrogacy and also provide healthy surrogate. Now its been 8 months to the surrogacy process. I am so happy that the baby is expected this month and I am finally going to hold him in my hands.
March 17, 2018 at 6:45 pm #1157Sasha JamesParticipantHey there berta. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great. I am really sorry to hear about your condition. It’s best you don’t lose hope. I hope everything goes well. IVF is a great option and a blessing. I should go for it. Wish you Good luck.
March 18, 2018 at 9:05 am #1169StormiParticipantWhen you begin trying to get pregnant you hear from many different sources that it is a good idea to begin using a prenatal multivitamin before you become pregnant. There are now studies backing this advice. Multivitamins serve as a type of “back up” plan to our diets. While eating a healthy fertility diet is of the utmost importance, it is always a good idea to include a whole food prenatal multivitamin in your program as well. So nutrition does play a big roll in our health, fertility and in pregnancy. Taking a whole food multivitamin daily can help to fill the gaps where diets may be falling short. Nutritional deficiencies have been linked to ovulation issues, hormonal imbalances, poor egg health, low sperm count and so much more. We are literally what we eat.
March 18, 2018 at 12:30 pm #1181AkiraParticipantI’m sharing my journey of Surrogacy with you.
I’m basically from Japan we are settled in Japan from past few years.We are happily married.I’m totally infertile now as i had hysterectomy cancer and as i result i am infertile now. But my husband was there with me every time. Than we searched about surrogacy and found it best solution for us.
As Japan has banned surrogacy so we moved to Europe to find our dream come true.Than we moved to Ukraine as we heard there are many good clinics regarding surrogacy in Ukraine.In Ukraine we found BioTexCom and consulted them.They helped us to find a good surrogate mom.Now she is pregnant with our twin daughters.We are very excited about having two daughters.We are so thankful to the clinic.The surrogates mom are kind they let us have our dream come true.
Share your stories tooMarch 18, 2018 at 5:26 pm #1195riazoyerParticipantHello there! I am not going to tell you to stay calm and don’t think about it too much I know I can’t exactly feel what you’re going through rn but i do understand your fears and concerns for your married life trust me it’s so different now with high technology and all the new procedures it is not difficult anymore to have a child you’ll be given several options choose the one you think is suitable for you there are procedures like IVF, IUI, and surrogacy, keep the pros and cons of everything in your mind and consult your doctor, take opinions and then go for the best suitable option. Nothing to be afraid of, you’re young so you will not face many problems during the procedure, take care of your health do some yoga to keep your mind at peace and then give it a thought because babies who’re born through such procedures are as normal as other babies. May God bless you!!
March 30, 2018 at 11:23 am #1540VictoriaParticipantHi there! Please don’t feel so down. Don’t beat yourself up about this. I wish these complications didn’t exist. But they do. It’s the harsh reality. Anyway, you have options. Surrogacy and IVF are really good ones. It doesn’t matter which way you pick as long as you’re getting your desired result at the end. Your child. That’s all that matters! I speak this from experience, so believe me! I wish you all the best in your future. May you get the same happiness as me. The blessing of a child is a great one. Good luck!
March 30, 2018 at 11:50 am #1542Felicia SazParticipantHello, Berta. Sorry to hear about what you are going through. It is normal to have such thoughts right now. Actually, it is good. It is great that you are thinking about all the possible problems that could happen or if it is suitable to go for IVF or other options or not. This will help you find answers right now and you won’t regret any decisions later. Getting back to the point now. I don’t think it is a “cold way of sneaking your child in”. Can you do it naturally? No, you can’t. If you could what would be the problem here? Problems are meant to be solved. You cannot just live like this. You deserve to be a parent too. IVF is just a little help our body gets in order to conceive a baby. The rest of the process is natural. I really hope you get what I’m trying to tell you here. Please consider it. I had my son a year ago through surrogacy in Ukraine. Trust me it is the best decision I ever made. I don’t regret it one bit.
March 30, 2018 at 6:22 pm #1557AnonymousInactiveHello Berta, so sad to read about your failure story. But believe me, you are not alone in this journey. Being a mother is the biggest desire of any woman. But when she comes to know about her infertility, that’s really shocking. As I think, instead of going for IVF treatment you should opt surrogacy. IVF is a technical procedure and also chemical pregnancy requires good mental and physical health. In comparison, surrogacy is a less technical procedure and success rates in surrogacy are comparatively high. So, surrogacy treatment will be best for you. Best wishes!
March 31, 2018 at 5:47 pm #1602StormiParticipantIVF may be used for diagnostic or therapeutic reasons. In patients with idiopathic infertility IVF may distinguish between defects in the spermatozoa or oocyte. At present IVF and ET offers patients with either tubal or idiopathic infertility only a small chance of becoming pregnant (4 to 13 per cent). General application of IVF and ET will be determined by future success rates and incidence of fetal malformation. Selection, preparation and management of patients requires a specialized team. Meticulous attention to detail and intense work. Extracorporeal fertilization is prescribed. If the woman hasn’t become pregnant within 10-18 months after operation on restoring of tubal permeability. Woman at the age of 35 and older are not recommended these operations and IVF is prescribed at once. I do hope with this information I have helped you. If not you can do more research on the same. Or you can also ask your doctor for further steps.
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