diana33

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  • #548
    diana33
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    This is like eternal question of many debates. To tell the truth or hide it? Some parents evade that question out of fear of losing their adopted children. Each and one of us would have that need to know who your biological parents are. The worst part would be for adoptive parents if your children make the connection with the biological one. There is always a possibility of losing them one day. I think that is the major reason why people don´t tell their adopted children about their origins. I think that is fair because the biological ones left those kids and shouldn´t get a chance of having them back. That should be the definitive punishment for irresponsible parents.

    #547
    diana33
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    I would talk to your ex´s wife and see what she says. You should all sit down and talk. When all facing each other, the truth will come out, if she hit your kid or not. If she really did hit your kid hard, you have a material to press charges. I wouldn´t allow anyone, literally anyone to not even scream at my child. And your ex´s behavior is also questionable. Personally I would seek the truth in all this and if it is true that she hit your child, I would seek full custody and forbid your ex from seeing the kid. If he allows the hits, then he is not deserved to be called the father.

    #546
    diana33
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    Well, it depends. I know that your child education is in the first place. But you have to take in consideration his life here where he lives now. His friends, his company in school, various factors should be considered. Also, you should talk to your kid too, to see if he wants to move in the first place. What if not? Would you still move against his will? It could cause only but problems in the long run. I think it is a great decision to be taken by you alone, you should talk to him and see if that solution is even possible.

    #545
    diana33
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    Maybe she feel neglected when she is with her mom. You wrote how your ex has children with her new husband, so maybe your daughter is not okay with that. Taking her to the therapist is fine, but maybe you should talk to her. To see if she can tell you what is bothering her when she is not with you. Also, her behavior tells me that you are a great father with her obviously and she enjoys being with you. You should talk to your ex, to see how she behaves with other children, maybe here lies the problem. Keep us posted.

    #544
    diana33
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    Hi to you all!

    My name is Diana. I am 33 years old, recently engaged. My fiancée and I want to have a baby. We are trying TTC for the last year and a half. Since we started, nothing. Four months ago I found out that I have a cyst in my right ovary. My doctor prescribed me to take contraceptive pills to get rid of the cyst. I hope it will help. Oh, I forgot to mention, 2 years ago I had my thyroid removed. It was not benign, so the doctors recommended removing it. When the operation was done, I got the information that conceiving a baby could be a little more difficult now. I am on eutirox pills for the rest of my life now, for the hormone regulation. I want to ask anyone here, if someone went through the same or similar situation? Is it really hard to conceive the baby? Thanks to all for taking the time to read my post!! 

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