Gabriella

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  • #2404
    Gabriella
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    Hey girls! I already have negative response to these letters! Hah! TTC is like TNT for me.
    It can explode suddenly. I hate the changes I sadly had after I’ve been diagnosed. Everyone loved me I think. I used to be such a shining carefree girl. My man and I traveled and make parties. We decided to make children and… TTC got started. This god damn long TTC was ready to visit our life. We tried without having result.
    Life began getting darker. It’s always so disappointing when you try so hard. You try over and over and see only emptiness instead of any other outcome.
    A woman above had a big tumor inside her womb. The doctors had to remove it via surgery. Her uterus was also remover effectively.After that her option list became rather shorter. You know in my case surrogacy started tempting my attention not so easy. I had to think over of it.
    We had to fight lots of fears and doubts. I haven’t started yet. I’m just frustrated after endless IVF rounds. I feel that was enough. It’s difficult to accept. I don’t have visual abnormalities.
    I hope you’re overcoming without hesitation. Frequently goals are reached by those who are stubborn. My best wishes and good luck!

    #2400
    Gabriella
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    Hey again! I’d love to ask you some details. Our last conversation stopped.
    I guess we are often busy. You have enough what to do every day. These are such pleasant troubles.
    Hope one day my life will be filled with them. How are you doing? Is anything new about your sweethearts?
    I still can’t understand how the afterbirth things happen. What’s it going after your surrogate delivered? Can you describe it a bit?
    My kindest regards dear. I am eager to repeat your way. Good luck !

    #2399
    Gabriella
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    I am interested in having a journey abroad. Hello to everyone. I hope your fertility journey gets advanced.
    My husband and I were traveling a lot. It was before. Now all our effort’s dedicated to planning our next steps in my treatment.
    I said we were traveling. It wasn’t just information to know. Many people travel around the world.
    But today we are afraid to visit new country purposely. I know you often offer Ukraine and Georgia.
    Also many countries are advisable now. I have already failed 8 IVFs. It was my limit.
    Actually I didn’t expect to have this number. Anyway it’s my past. Now I think how to increase my chances in successful surrogacy journey.
    You are more experienced. I read your stories. Some of them really make me inspired.
    The way you walked through deserves respect. You are my examples to follow suit.
    I wish you all the best. Your housed must shine with baby dust. It’s hard to decide.
    Hope in the soonest future we’ll move on. My husband supports and shows great readiness. We have to catch the moment straight away.

    #2171
    Gabriella
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    Okay dear. I’ve just probably missed some sense. It was clinic’s rule, that’s fine.
    When you trust your doctor you follow clinical requirements. It’s understandable. I know what gestational surrogacy means.
    I myself always get troubled thinking about that magician connection between mom and kid. It’s kind of my problem. How will I awaken my baby’s feeling? Is it possible to compensate that link?
    Also that makes sense your doctor matches surrogate. If her health is priority you must decide what it important for you. I suppose some couples want to select cutie-beauty on role of surrogate.
    It’s like to order nice small house where the child will live in. you didn’t answer about arrangements. Is it common among Ukrainian clinics?

    #2169
    Gabriella
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    Yeah, I know some people are close to commit suicide. When you’re in such mess you urgently need someone’s help. It’s too serious.
    You’re such a great one. You overcame it relatively fast. I hope now all gonna be okay.
    It’s so cute to know you are next to your babies. All the time you have this amazing opportunity. One thought of it makes me smile.
    Why have they done so many arrangements? Is it because you bought maybe special offer? Did you have to pay for additional help?
    Sometimes it’s incredibly difficult to start accepting even the Idea of surrogacy. You always stick to the thought another woman must carry your baby. She will share warmth and love with child.
    It can kill any motivation. A woman wants to take part in life of her children. Especially when they just begin living she must participate.
    This fact is still unbearable for me. How did you choose your surrogate? I guess it was super tough casting.
    Which parameters were in priority? I just can’t imagine how it was hard. You are in another country.
    Your surrogate was there in Ukraine. How was it possible to maintain complete control? I hope it was not as worrisome as I described.

    #2164
    Gabriella
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    Excellent! I swear it has made my day. Your way is a definite example to follow.
    How are your children now? It’s so sweet to know. Can you tell why you chose Ukraine?
    Is it worth our best expectation? I trust you. All that you said was so wonderful.
    My husband yells on me because I often got inspired on forums. He thinks it doesn’t make sense. I believe he’s mistaken because I really feel better.
    Thank you for sharing! Your challenge was even more harrowing. I have my womb and ovaries present.
    Another problem I can’t benefit from them. My pregnancy doesn’t happen. It’s such a big stress.
    I heard much about Ukraine. It became something attractive to people searching for solution. I’m one of them.
    My good old friend has just got her journey over. She’s also a mother. I saw her on skype she was shining with happiness.
    I hope one day I’ll be happy the same. How such little angels can change the awful life! It’s beyond my comprehension.
    Please, if you have spare time could you share more? I’m looking forward to knowing more. Thank you for everything!

    #2160
    Gabriella
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    My classmate has recently finished her Journey. She was my best friend when we were in school. She lives too far from me now.
    I couldn’t meet her to speak. We talked via skype. She seemed so gorgeous.
    It looked like her successful journey made her young again. I was excited and sad at the same time. My own journeys can’t get started.
    My friend’s treatment had take place in the US. They are rich family. It wasn’t a problem at all to look for surrogacy in 200 miles from home.
    I’m just after my last IVF. I hope it was final effort. We don’t get anything.
    We thought it was a relevant time to stop. We already have 5 failed rounds. In my case it seems more appropriate to opt for surrogacy with my own eggs.
    I was so proud when we collected 12 eggs after stimulation for the first time! My win is close now! – I thought so.
    Again and again, over and over I faced emptiness. After the day of embryo transfer nothing was going to happen. My womb perhaps just ate my probable children.
    Such a terrible nightmare! I won’t endure it any longer. It was the final straw.
    I’m here to find out more about surrogacy. I’m interested particularly in European options. Maybe one day one of them will become my chance.

    #2159
    Gabriella
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    It’s so inspiring to meet IPs. You already made your first steps forward. I’m interested in knowing more and having surrogacy in the future.
    I failed my 5 IVF. That means for me I have to opt for something else. I’m not decisive person.
    I always hesitate in front of making choice. My husband is too busy to make things hasten. That’s why I’m laying like an abandoned toy in full frustration. I try to find some encouragement on the forums. On the one hand it helps.
    I’m already 35. I don’t want to miss more moments. Time is so rapidly flowing.
    My doctor said to me we had to think over. What to do further. Should we try more of switch on surrogacy?
    Five IVFs without even single BFP mean I have to give it up. Only another option will give me chance. Thus, I’m here looking for new knowledge.
    How did you overcome that period before you started journey? All these things around make me mad. I hardly control my emotions.
    My relatives often come around. They’re worried about my state. After they check how I’m doing they leave me again.
    Because everyone have his own family. My husband loves and cares but works hard. I feel lack of him.
    I hope everyone will be doing well. Everything gonna be all right! Me best wishes and congratulations guys!

    #2158
    Gabriella
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    Hullo! It’s nice to know everyone here. Sorry for your losses. I also suffer from my ones.
    I’m 35 years old. I’m infertile and newbie to this community! Thank you for letting me join.
    It’s really a great pleasure to find out someone has finished fertility journey. Someone is now busy because he or she looks after children. Such things inspire!
    Another situation when I read story of failure. It’s always so painful. I relate to each post of pain.
    Last 6 years I spent in endless trying to conceive. 5 IVF rounds are left behind. I sadly haven’t succeeded.
    I have never seen BFP. Oh, how I was expecting! I couldn’t sleep nights.
    My heavy thoughts made both me and my husband too heavy to move on further. Today we experience frustration. We need something to encourage us.
    Each time I had one more attempt I was so hopeful. I believe it was like a stupid joke. This time I’ll certainly gain what’s mine.
    Unfortunately, having healthy ovaries and womb I waste my time. I give perfect response to stimulation. The doctor always collects approximately 10 eggs. They are fertilized and survive the 5th day.
    After the transfer day I’m waiting for miracle. Oh, God you could let me have at least one BFP! Let me see two lines!
    It would change my disposition. It would make my faith stronger. We decided that five cycles were enough.
    Now we’re considering surrogacy. Or rather to say we are just sitting tight trying to digest our verdict. It’s such a tough time.
    My class mate had her surrogacy journey finished. I can’t meet her but I called. She lives in Canada.
    Her journey took place in the US. I don’t know where I can afford it there. It wasn’t a constructive conversation.
    She mostly shared her emotions. I’ll try to learn more reading someone’s stories. Hopefully, we’ll get strength to start at last.

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