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May 12, 2018 at 12:54 pm #2056EllenParticipant
Hey gorgeous. I am really sorry for the situation you have to go through. So many women out there have been a sufferer now. My friend had the same problem. Her Fallopian tube got blocked due to a cyst. She consulted her doctors who came up with the option of surgery. My dear, you must have a check up again. Your thyroid got removed too. They play a vital role in pregnancy. Seek the help of your doctor. He knows your situation well. He can help you better than others. Don’t loose hope.There is always a solution to the problem that we face. Remember, the stars can’t shine without darkness. All the very best to you. Stay positive. Sending lots of love. 🙂May 16, 2018 at 7:00 am #2158GabriellaParticipant
Hullo! It’s nice to know everyone here. Sorry for your losses. I also suffer from my ones.
I’m 35 years old. I’m infertile and newbie to this community! Thank you for letting me join.
It’s really a great pleasure to find out someone has finished fertility journey. Someone is now busy because he or she looks after children. Such things inspire!
Another situation when I read story of failure. It’s always so painful. I relate to each post of pain.
Last 6 years I spent in endless trying to conceive. 5 IVF rounds are left behind. I sadly haven’t succeeded.
I have never seen BFP. Oh, how I was expecting! I couldn’t sleep nights.
My heavy thoughts made both me and my husband too heavy to move on further. Today we experience frustration. We need something to encourage us.
Each time I had one more attempt I was so hopeful. I believe it was like a stupid joke. This time I’ll certainly gain what’s mine.
Unfortunately, having healthy ovaries and womb I waste my time. I give perfect response to stimulation. The doctor always collects approximately 10 eggs. They are fertilized and survive the 5th day.
After the transfer day I’m waiting for miracle. Oh, God you could let me have at least one BFP! Let me see two lines!
It would change my disposition. It would make my faith stronger. We decided that five cycles were enough.
Now we’re considering surrogacy. Or rather to say we are just sitting tight trying to digest our verdict. It’s such a tough time.
My class mate had her surrogacy journey finished. I can’t meet her but I called. She lives in Canada.
Her journey took place in the US. I don’t know where I can afford it there. It wasn’t a constructive conversation.
She mostly shared her emotions. I’ll try to learn more reading someone’s stories. Hopefully, we’ll get strength to start at last.May 18, 2018 at 5:12 am #2215AnonymousInactive
I guess surrogacy is the last option for me now to have baby of our own.
I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered quite good info about surrogacy.
I also contacted some surrogates who are willing to cary our child in their womb.
I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages every time.
I had many complications while getting pregnant.
During my first marriage i had no luck with having children although i conceived for 3 times.
I know today surrogacy is a common thing but i am worried about many aspects of having a baby via surrogacy.
I guess we will find a surrogate wth the help of clinic we are consulting.
I am married for second time i want to have baby of my own to live with.
But regarding and having a look at my previous pregnancy period i know its not a good idea to be pregnant again.
So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option.May 18, 2018 at 6:55 pm #2249Alice BlakeParticipant
I feel very sorrowful by hearing your situation. Last year I was diagnosed with uterine cancer. I lost my uterus. I was very depressed. I wish you good health. I hope you find the right way soon.May 20, 2018 at 5:15 pm #2298Sarah WilliamsParticipant
Hello, all the IPs. this is Sara Williams. I’ve never got to introduce myself. Well, I’m a 38-year-old woman from NYC, U.S. I’m just another woman suffering from infertility. So, yeah! This is my 5 year of marriage. Still, not able to give my DH a child. Well, some of us don’t have the privilege to have the life natural way. Well, still I’m hopeful that one day by one way or another. I’ll be having a child. So, yeah! I’m an IVF candidate for this July 2018 at a human repro center in Ukraine. Yeah! I’ve been referred by someone. Just need luck now! Stay blessed you all ladies. xxJune 6, 2018 at 9:11 am #2705riazoyerParticipant
Hey Diana am sorry to hear that you in such a situation. I have also noted that you such a daring person such that you ready to take any risk that will go beyond to protect the unborn one.
Do not worry, many people are suffering from the same problem. Please consult with the specialist before taking the medicines or tests. One of my friends tell me about surrogacy info and also tell they solve all the problems related baby. So, do not get frustrated. Try this, hope this will help you!June 6, 2018 at 3:08 pm #2717Rhonda JetParticipant
hi there everyone. How are you all doing? I hope its all great. I am really happy to see this threat. I am also new to this. I would like to share my story too. I have been in a car accident. It left me infertile. However i did not give up. I wen for surrogacy. It was the best thing ever. I know how hard it. I wish everyone good luck. Take care people. I am hoping to hear more such stories. Love and support.June 7, 2018 at 8:26 pm #2762ashleyParticipant
Hey everyone! i want to share my story. It’s always the worst time when you are trying to conceive. And you are not getting the results. i were married at the age of 28 years. In first two years of our married life, we didn’t focus to have a baby. After two years we decided to have a baby but we couldn’t make it because of some issues. It was heartbreaking. We visited clinics. We asked our relatives for advice and by doing different researchers we decided to go through from the process of surrogacy. And we finally make it in the end and now we are enjoying our lives. i hope it works out for everyone in the end.June 8, 2018 at 5:09 pm #2799AkiraParticipant
My opinion on Surrogacy is:
Surrogacy gives the infertile people a chance to have some kids.Surrogacy is very good according to me.Surrogacy should not be banned.It is the source of happiness for many people.Surrogate moms give kids to others who are unable to have kids naturally.
For me surrogacy is the best thing in the world.i was infertile and i got my twin daughters from surrogacy.
Good luck to everyone.June 9, 2018 at 4:55 am #2819Emma412Participant
Hello to you all, You don’t need to be worry about anything. We should never really think bad about these situations. I am also an infertile woman. What can I tell you? How miserable my life is. I am so much tensed. I don’t what should I do. There is nothing left for me I guess. Everything is ruined. You just need to take care a lot of yourself. We should always be calm and keep patience.June 9, 2018 at 5:01 am #2820AnonymousInactive
I am in the same condition.
I can’t get pregnant and i don’t know the reason for it too.
The doctors are also unable to find the reason for this.
I have gone through extensive testings but the doctors are also unable to find the main cause for my infertility.
They can’t tell the main problem.
I have been trying to conceive from last 10 years now.
But still i didn’t conceived.
As doctors can’t tell the main cause of my infertility i guess i will go for surrogacy now.
I live in Bulgaria where surrogacy is prohibited.
I heard there are many clinics for infertility treatment in Ukraine.
I read about many clinics there from these forums.
I have found clinic from Ukraine.People talk mostly about this clinic.
I will contact this clinic and will consult them about my problem.
Surrogacy is very popular there so i guess i will also have a baby from surrogacy.June 9, 2018 at 8:53 am #2835Emma412Participant
Well, it’s so great to know about you all. It’s really great that we all are here present for the issues. We should help each other. This is the way of doing good for us. I hope everything is alright.June 12, 2018 at 11:32 pm #2938ElizabethLauritsenParticipant
We tried for 3 years. And trust me, I know cinceiving a baby can be realky hard. In my case, it proved to be impossible. I was left with no where to go. Then my husband brought up the idea of taking help of a fertility clinic. Little did I know, it was the start of a whole new sequence of torture and failures for me. 2 IUIs and 3 ivfs later m, we were still where we started with the addition of broken hopes and shattered dreams. It was then that my husband came up with surrogacy. I was not ready for it. Not at all. But I didn’t want to disappoint my husband. So I said yes. The first day that I felt happy was the day they tild me they will use my eggs. The child will be genetically ours 100%. But I didn’t wanna get my hopes too high. And then, a year later, they passed my daughter to me. That little cotton ball. I still remember that time. I still remember that yawn. That cry, I will never forget. I love this little piece of me so much.June 13, 2018 at 11:18 am #2956chicagoParticipant
Diana hii! How are you? first of all, congratulation! Why are you so worried? Believe me it’s not more difficult as you know. I admit dear that it’s very critical condition. but nothing is impossible in this world. I’ll recommend you to take bed rest. you should consult your condition to your family doctor weekly. don’t you worry. you should take the medicine regularly. if you are feeling weakness in your body that I’ll also recommend you to wait. because nothing is important than health.one of m family fellow also got this condition. the doctors recommend her to wait. now she has a baby.so I’ll recommend you to wait for a year. stay blessed and take care.June 15, 2018 at 5:10 am #3052Evelyn RoseParticipant
Nice to meet you diana. I have had my share of difficulty with conceiving a baby. We tried for years but nothing. We did all we could. But it was just not happening. Finally, after a whike of research, we landed on surrogacy. It’s no less than a miracle that it worked out for me. I am so happy.
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