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  • #1760
    Anonymous
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    Hi, I totally agree with you. Yes, money is important. But motivation and love are more important. Especially in such situations. I am very sorry for your infertility. I have endo too. I even had to get a hysterectomy. I think you are right. People don’t like surrogacy because they are jealous. Maybe they don’t like that we got what nature didn’t give us. I wish you all the best. So, you got your baby? Or is the baby on the way? And where did you get it done? I flew to Europe to have my baby.

    #1762
    Jess bling
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    Money can be an important factor.I don’t believe it can be the only factor. I was financially stable but not like in a very good position. My infertility lead us with no baby. My husband wanted to go for IVF or surrogacy. I was reluctant. I didn’t wanna waste his hard earned money. What if there were zero results? He convinced me somehow for IVF. Now again I was s worried about the positive results. The stress led to a failed IVF round. Yes, I was that unfortunate. Luckily the clinic we chose told us that we can avail multiple rounds.That too in the same budget.I am so glad the clinic happened to us. The second round was successful. Thankfully I have a baby now.

    #1767
    GenySmith1
    Participant

    Hi Tifanny, glad to see you here. your post is very motivational and inspirational. really, this made my day and filled my heart with deep pleasure. many people around are suffering from such dangerous disease. people like you are like angels who help others in the hour of need. can you please share your journey of love in more detail? it really means millions to us. thanks!

    #1792
    Trisha
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    Endometriosis is a mystery. An enigma! We do not know the origin of the disease. We do not know why it causes such extreme symptoms in some women. And not in others. The treatment options vary. let’s be honest. A bit “hit and miss”. And, unfortunately, because endometriosis is associated with menstruation, sex, infertility, and pain (all taboo subjects in most societies). It is a disease that is not well known, understood, or accepted in the general public. What many women with endometriosis may end up having to accept is that we may need to learn how to live with and manage chronic pain. Deal with infertility. And how to increase coping skills and regain control of our lives if we have not been fortunate enough to find a treatment. Which adequately takes care of our symptoms. There is no single prescription or blue print for coping . People use a number of different ways to cope. Different methods work for different individuals. And some may wish to consult with different health care providers.

    #1829
    Anonymous
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    Hello Tiffany, so sad to learn about your miseries. Life is hard for a woman and society makes it harder. I’m totally agreed with your love. People always say annoying about others. But one should not react too much to it. Its common for a dog to bark at the moon, but if moon barks back do becomes famous. Similarly, ignoring such people is one of the best solutions. Conceiving is one of the biggest issues people are facing nowadays. Some couples conceive successfully in their first attempt and some can’t even conceive after the years. Life is like an undergoing battle which continues till death. But if one wants to be successful, she should keep hope and fight with his full power. You got success because you tried again and again. Congrats on your baby dear. What you say about having 2 or 3 more?

    #1852
    chicago
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    tifanny sorry to hear that you have gone through endometriosis. That’s really a heart touching thing. But I am happy for you to know that now you are stable. you have successfully faced these troubles. Oh wow, you are now able to cherish the taste of life. No, don’t think like that. You are now feeling proud. Proud is not a good thing. Try to live in humbleness. I can understand what you are thinking. Just remember people discuss only those who are there out of the approach. They made gossips about you just because you were high or above of their thoughts. This show their narrowness. Enjoy your life without think of them. They are people and it’s their task to make gossips. Let them do their work and move on. Life is spreading a carpet of happiness for you.

    #1934
    Anonymous
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    Hello there, I’m happy to read your story. You’re a very strong woman. It’s so inspirational that you never lost the heart. You had confidence in yourself. This is an incredible lesson to all ladies who are disappointed. We have to learn from such stories. I think every infertile one should see your post your post. Thanks for such a post.

    #1938
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Oh, congratulations for starting your process! I really want all updates! I’m following this post. I have a friend looking into this option so might as well tell her, too. As for me, I just became a mother last year. We got her through surrogacy. How great, isn’t it?

    #1946
    Jessica fields
    Participant

    Congratulation on getting your share of happiness. You are right. People cannot let you live happily. I am sorry you had to take breaks from them. Supportive friends are a blessing in disguise. I remember my friends were there for me in all my difficult times. They gave me the strength to undergo IVF.

    #1959
    Trisha
    Participant

    To many of you, your endometriosis story is still very new. You might still be grappling with what endometriosis is, and how it might impact your life. You might be experiencing symptoms that are new to you. Such as abdominal pain or chronic fatigue. You might have a case of suspected endometriosis, or confirmed endometriosis which is causing you no adverse effects at all. While many women are very appreciative of the treatment they receive from their healthcare professionals. Lots of us found the support they received directly after their diagnosis quite poor. Even down to the basics like how to pronounce the word or what causes it. So get your doctor or consultant to explain what endometriosis is. What the symptoms are, and it’s likely effect on you. Ask all the questions you need. Don’t leave until you have enough information to equip yourself with a sense of the illness.

    #3024
    ezabel
    Participant

    Yes, it takes people around to encourage you often. And things do happen. I have seen many women who are supported by their friends or in-laws even. That feels good to know that there is some good left to see in this world. Infertile women need just a bit of encouragement and love. And everything would be found. Everyone must encourage them no matter what process she is going for. That would help her overcome all the fears and sorrows.
    Do good in life. That really matters.

    #4536
    Jessy Smith
    Participant

    Hello. Hope you are doing well. I agree with you. Love and care are more important than money. You are lucky to go for treatments at good clinics. I wish you good luck. Stay happy and strong.

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