Community Forum

True Happiness

Home Forums Surrogacy Budgeting & Financial True Happiness

Viewing 15 posts - 1 through 15 (of 27 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • #611
    Tifanny
    Participant

    I was diagnosed with endometriosis 5 years ago. Thanks God I am financially stable. Unless otherwise my dream of having my own baby could not come to pass. I am successful woman. So I think it is due to this reason that many people were jealous of me. So when they find out that I had some complications with conceiving. I became their topic of discussion. It had been so hard to keep myself moving on. Sometimes I would take breaks from my profession. Go on long holidays in other countries just to take the steam off. Then is when I knew even money cannot buy happiness. I banked all my hoped in God. Finally my dream came true. So this is to encourage people out there who are going through financial strains not to give up. It just takes the people around you to give you motivation. It is just love that keeps me going these days. And not my multi-million companies.

    #618
    Trisha
    Participant

    So well said. People tend to think money is everything. I hope your story will change their way of thinking. I know of various people who have been in similar cases. They are billionaires. But they do not have happiness. It is the peace of minds that I value. This generations tend to exaggerate the value of money. They feel if you have money then you have everything in life. This is so false. I know of someone who even regrets being rich. Things are hunting him day and night. Value the happiness around you. Once you are contented of what you have. Then you are also rich in your own world. It just takes the inner self for one to be rich. Rich is a word being misused these days. It seems like the synonym of making it in life. Well, we all have different versions too. What that word means to you is different to what it means to me. It is all about personal perspective.

    #621
    Milan
    Participant

    True happiness comes from in within. I like your encouragement. I have a sister who is going through infertility. She is not able to get some services. I can say facing infertility when you are broke is the worst thing. Now that is what my sister is going through. She is currently not working. She had to take a break from her career due to her condition. While she was pregnant she used to have miscarriages. So the doctor though it was stress from work. She was then told to relieve herself from hard work. So that she can concentrate on her pregnancies. It still did not work. But since then she never went back to work. She is now a housewife. Her husband pay is not enough. That can guarantee her proper medical check up. But she is just content with whatever that she has. Now I am planning to be her surrogate free of charge. This news really made her happy.

    #956
    Stormi
    Participant

    Well, I can say that you are lucky. Being rich is something of benefit. You are advantaged more than us. But never lose hope and believe that things will work out. It depends with how you will work things out. Many people have been so materialistic. Believing taht money is everything. But to be honest it is not. I have seen millionaires crying day nd night. They have the money but the health is the problem. Some things even with money you cannot get help. You feel stranded. When the only thing taht you thought ill buy you everything disappoints you. Then you are left there with nothing to do. So human care an compassion means a lot. So to everyone out there know that the people around means everything. Your post will surely be a motivation to others.

    #1019
    Missha
    Participant

    Lovely inspirational story. Money it’s not all but believe me, life could be worse when you are broke.
    May I ask you how did you do that? I’m sure that motivation means a lot as well as positive thinking but it’s not all. How did you get rid of your endo? Did you have surgery?

    #1153
    Mona
    Participant

    Hi, Tiffany. I’m so glad to hear your story. You’re a very strong lady. It’s so motivating that you never lost hope. You believed in yourself. This is a great message to all women out there who are depressed. We need to learn from such stories. I hope every sad person sees your post. And it motivates them and brings hope in them. Thanks for such a nice post.

    #1154
    Felicia Saz
    Participant

    Hey Tiffany. Hope you are doing good. I’m so glad things worked out for you. You are very lucky. Although you didn’t mention how you and your baby. I would also like to know where you went for it. I have a son too who I had through surrogacy. He is nine months old now. I had lost all hope. All the bad news I got broke me. I would see people having kids and it hurt me so bad. So I decided to go for it. I’m so blessed now. Your post made me really happy. I wish and hope things work out in the same way for other people too. Everyone deserves to be a parent. Their condition shouldn’t be able to stop them from becoming one.

    #1158
    Sasha James
    Participant

    Hi there. How are you doing? Its great to see that you didn’t lose hope. It’s great that you kept fighting. I do agree positive people around us make us fight for everything worth. I wish you good luck. Hope to hear more from you.

    #1197
    Bella Huges
    Participant

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. You’re so right, people get so jealous. tt’s like money is everything for them. I am sure you changed a lot of people’s mind. The only thing that should matter should be the happiness and the moment you’re living. You’re such a strong woman. I just wish everyone out there could have strength like you. Best of luck for the future.

    #1243
    Akira
    Participant

    Hello
    i’m new here.I’m from Japan.We moved to Europe to find our heaven.
    Surrogacy is ban in Japan.And i’m infertile due to some cancer reasons. So we moved to Europe to find surrogacy related clinics. We consulted many clinics in Europe. Than we came to know about clinics in Ukraine and we moved to Ukraine.
    In ukraine we found a very good clinic.
    Now we are having twins with the help of this clinic.The clinic gave us a very good surrogate mom.With the help of that mom we are having our two twin daughters.
    We are so excited and happy.
    Feedback and suggestions much admired.

    #1253
    hailey johnson
    Participant

    Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. It is so good to hear that you have finally achieved your dream. I know being financially stable is necessary if you want to look for alternatives to becoming a mother. I had longed for a baby for almost seven years after my marriage. Then I got to know about surrogacy. I was not that stable financially but I found a good clinic in Ukraine that offered cheaper packages. Best of luck. Cheers!

    #1382
    Gracehill
    Participant

    Hello beautiful ladies.I have diagnosed endometriosis.I trying hard to get pregnant naturally but unfortunately, I cannot.I am heartbroken and totally depressed with my condition.I am not able to survive anymore.My life becomes hard and tough day by day.I am taking the lap surgery to remove it.But no luck is there.My fate is not in my hand.I am quite sure after that I must conceive but no success.I have to concern with the doctor and told him that I had already taken the lap surgery to remove it.But still, there is no luck.Actually, my endo had attacked my eggs, so my eggs are unable to be fertilized.Now the last option is for me to take the surrogacy process.Could anyone experience this?please let me out in this situation.

    #1387
    Milan
    Participant

    Although a definite link between pregnancy and endometriosis has yet to be formally announced. There are studies that shows that endometriosis increases the risk of a pregnant woman and her child to these conditions. One of the biggest challenges for doctors. There’s no way to test for endometriosis in its earliest stages. It shows up on scans only when it’s advanced. Which makes preserving fertility even trickier. Yes, getting pregnant can reduce some endo symptoms. With a bun in the oven, a woman’s progesterone levels are higher. And because endometriosis is fueled by estrogen. The surplus of progesterone can suppress the disease. That’s how this whole “just get pregnant” thing probably got started. But it’s not a cure. Nine months later, symptoms will return in most women. That’s why many women use hormonal treatment. Whether it’s a birth control pill or the vaginal ring, to “turn off” the menstrual cycle to keep lingering symptoms under control. Experts recommend hormonal medications until a woman is done having kids.

    #1500
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Don’t worry dear.
    There is a solution to every problem today.
    If you are unable to have a baby from your own womb then why not you go for surrogacy.
    Surrogacy is the most common method of having a baby with your own DNA.
    Don’t lose any hope dear i’m also 43 years old and i have also no luck with kids.
    I had many complications regarding pregnancy.I conceived for 3 times but resulted in miscarriages every time.So i also gave up on getting pregnant again and again.I researched over the web for different methods of having babies and i came across surrogacy.Surrogacy is a good solution for mothers like us who can’t have a baby of their own.While researching about surrogacy i came across a clinic named BioTexCom many times.There are very positive reviews about it over the internet.
    So i contacted the clinic and told them my complications they answered my all questions.They cleared my misunderstanding about the surrogacy.
    So now i am ready to go for the surrogacy method.
    I have persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy.He is ready if we can have a baby via surrogacy of our own DNA’s.
    The clinic will find a good surrogate for our baby.
    If someone has any review and suggestion for BioTexCom please let us know.So that we can learn from you.

    #1751
    kim01
    Participant

    I am sorry for you. There is a problem with every solution. I know money cannot buy happiness. But the decisions do. Every woman wants to have babies I was one of them. I was happily married to a person who loved me a lot. We decided to have a big family but it failed. So when we were hopeless we decided to go for surrogacy. I heard about surrogacy success on different forums and It was really an amazing process to carry out. We chose a clinic in Europe because it was convenient for us to go there. We went there finally. The clinic was reputed for its success in surrogacy. They provided us with a healthy surrogate. She was medically tested before surrogacy. They provided us all the rights to the baby. Later we were blessed with the baby.

Viewing 15 posts - 1 through 15 (of 27 total)
  • You must be logged in to reply to this topic.