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March 27, 2018 at 6:57 pm #1462smash12Participant
Hello! I’m extremely sorry to learn about your MC. It more likely than not been hard for you. MC isn’t a little thing. You lose every one of your expectations. Everything you could ever hope for is broken. It’s extremely excruciating. I have experienced this. Along these lines, I know how awful it feels. It’s exceptionally hard to adapt up to this. Be that as it may, don’t stress. Try not to lose confidence in yourself. There is no reason to worry. I moved to surrogacy thus, should you? It is the most well-known strategy for having a kid. There are numerous great centres in Europe. Take a stab at doing some exploration on them. I trust everything gets fine soon. Good fortunes!
March 27, 2018 at 7:16 pm #1464AnonymousInactiveHEY, sorry to hear your saddened situation. But I tell you not to worry if you cant conceive naturally. You may have other ways to enjoy parenthood. I have recently read a lot about surrogacy on different forums and have read so much of the success stories of the couples who are unable to carry a child. Thy pursued surrogacy and live happily. I have decided surrogacy myself. However, you can pursue surrogacy on donor eggs or with your own eggs. The surrogate mother will carry the child for you. As others mentioned there are few countries which have declared surrogacy legal. I have decided to go eastern Europe for my surrogacy process. I have heard great reviews and visit once. Choosing a clinic is the main process of the surrogacy because of the cost, doctors, and accommodation. The one I chose is offering great packages with accommodation and is equipped with advanced ART. They also have an extensive database of surrogates who are healthy enough to carry a child. Your true match according to your preferences will further be tested for fertility. This is what I have discovered so far and will be going to meet my surrogate very soon. I advise you search the clinic which has the highest success rate with economical prices. Good Luck!!
March 28, 2018 at 7:27 am #1473chicagoParticipantwelcome Gracehill!!! We give you a warm welcome to be here. We will make our best to give you sincere ideas and suggestions. If we know we will do best. During the first trimester, gynecologist advises their patients to avoid such activities. These activities may include up and down stairs and traveling. You traveled a lot. that’s why it happened as. Wait for the right time and use medication as prescribed by your doctor.
March 28, 2018 at 2:04 pm #1481Joanne SilviaParticipantHello there. Hope you’re doing well. Your story is really sad. It broke me on the inside. It must have been such a difficult thing to get back to normal life after experiencing something so traumatic. You’re really brave to have pulled yourself up, again. It took me years to get over my miscarriages. You’re going in the right direction. There’s no need to hold yourself back now. There are a lot of ways of conceiving. You can always look at procedures such as surrogacy and IVF. They’ve gained a lot of popularity. They definitely work as well. Hope you look into them. Good luck with whatever you choose! x
March 28, 2018 at 2:28 pm #1482AkiraParticipantInfertility is a big issue today.
I also had the issue but surrogacy was the solution for me.
I am also infertile.We heard that Ukraine has many good clinics regarding surrogacy.
Surrogacy is very popular in Ukraine.We heard alot about the clinics regarding surrogacy in Japan.
Surrogacy was the ultimate solution for my issue.
We moved to Europe in search of a very good clinic.We didn’t found a good clinic in Europe.We moved to Ukraine than.In Ukraine we found a clinic.It has many good reputation.As i am sharing my direct experience with you all.We found a good surrogate.Now she is pregnant with our two daughters.Soon we will have two daughters.
I guess you should also go for surrogacy.March 28, 2018 at 3:46 pm #1485NINAParticipantHello there! I believe you are fine. Couples who have been trying for a long time and could not produce become very much unhappy. The smile on their faces fades away and they remain upset most of the times. Seeing other happy couples would make them uneasy. Their self-confidence would fade away. People suffering from this condition would make their lives miserable. This would cause them to lose hope to live their lives. They should go for surrogacy. I know some people who have been trying surrogacy and are living a happy and balanced life.Gender of your child is also in your hand. There are many clinics in Europe that can help you in the process. I know people who visited there. They have a well-experienced team. Their services are great. I hope you find them good. If you are in need to visit them.
March 28, 2018 at 6:03 pm #1491AnonymousInactiveHey, really sorry Hun, feel your grief. The accident must have shaken you. Indeed, the grief of losing a child other than not be able to conceive naturally is terrible. But, there are assisted reproductive techniques allows you to have your own genetic child without having to carry it. The surrogacy in Eastern Europe has lot f great reviews and the laws there are surrogacy-friendly.the surrogate others are chosen by you but the clinic has their owned surrogate database.The surrogates are tested and screened for several fertility tests in order to ensure that the surrogate is healthy enough to carry a child for some else. The egg retrieval will be done via IVF. Moreover, they allow you to meet with the surrogate and ensure your perfect match depending on your preferences for color, ethnicity, and age. . I am flying next week to meet with my surrogate. Too excited and anxious at the same time. I advise you to research surrogacy and visit before deciding for one. Baby Dust
March 29, 2018 at 5:03 pm #1516AnonymousInactiveHello @Gracehill, so sorry to hear about your accident. I’m really worried about your health. Please inform me as soon as possible. Dear, you are at the right place and I hope that you’ll get friendly suggestions. I guess that accident may cause the disease which causes the stretching of tissues. So, it requires a lot of time to conceive again. You should wait for some time and should start another TTC. If it won’t work, then surrogacy treatment is the best option left. You have healthier eggs but your body does not support a pregnancy. Surrogate mother will then carry your child. I’m sure that this will work this time. My friend is a surrogate and she works for a clinic. She sometimes tells about her clinic. According to her, the success rates of that clinic are very high. I will ask her to guide you through this process if you want. Best wishes!
March 29, 2018 at 7:55 pm #1529MeeParticipantSad to hear about your story. I went through your post and it felt like I should share my story. My doctors diagnosed me with infertility after 2 consecutive miscarriages and recommend me infertility treatments but nothing happened so i went to Europe and there consulted many doctors and they told me that surrogacy is the only option so after consulting many clinics i found a surrogate and now i have a son through surrogacy. I hope you will consider my suggestion. Best of luck.
March 30, 2018 at 7:19 pm #1565MeeParticipantHello, I am so sad for your misfortune. It is difficult to overlook such misfortune. It was destiny however you can’t transform it. I would recommend you to opt surrogacy. I am a mother of a child conceived through surrogacy. I had premature deliveries and from that point forward, I was diagnosed by PCOS. I had no other path than surrogacy. I am happy that i get a good advice and go for surrogacy. I went to Europe for surrogacy. It was helpful for me and it is legitimate in Europe. Expect good and this would help you.
March 31, 2018 at 12:02 pm #1575StormiParticipantA fertility problem may be one of the most difficult challenges you’ll ever face. Acknowledging this is a key to coping. It’s normal to feel a monumental sense of loss, to feel stressed, sad, or overwhelmed. Don’t chastise yourself for feeling this way. Facing and accepting your emotions can help you move through them. Identify and share your feelings. If you’re always putting up a brave front. Others won’t understand what you’re going through, and you’ll feel even more alone. It can be helpful to sort out your thoughts and feelings by writing them down in a journal first. And then sharing whatever feels comfortable with trusted friends or family. Don’t blame yourself. Resist the temptation to get angry with yourself or listen to the little voice in your head that says negative things. People can get caught in negative thinking patterns that only make matters worse. Instead of berating yourself, look forward to how you are going to manage the situation. When you start feeling like you “should have” or “could have.” Remind yourself that your fertility problem is not your fault. Even if you could have made different decisions in the past, they’re behind you. Focus on the present. Work with your partner as a team. If you have a spouse or partner, help each other through this time. And don’t blame each other for your difficulty getting pregnant.
March 31, 2018 at 4:12 pm #1587ainaParticipanthey, grace! The story of yours made me really sad. I faced the same problem. I have an accident when I was pregnant 8 weeks. My doctor told me the same reason that I will never be a mom. But I heard much about the IVF. I wanted to try this, I asked my husband for IVF. He consulted a doctor, and the doctor said that you should try this. I went for this and a have a baby boy. You should also go for this, it will be beneficial to you.
April 3, 2018 at 2:24 am #1672CrystalMacyParticipantHi there
April 3, 2018 at 2:27 am #1673CrystalMacyParticipantHello dear.I am feeling sad to hear that you met that horrible accident.But dear believe that there is the solution for everything.My friend also had to face the accident when she was 12 weeks pregnant.It was really tough to know or hear the double shocking news.One is the loss of her child and the second thing is not conceiving the kid naturally.She had her baby through surrogacy.Wishing that you had also had this blessing in future.
April 3, 2018 at 6:26 pm #1687ainaParticipantAlas!!! It is very sad to know about your loss. I quote here, “there is our mistake when we think to have some gap to start the family properly”. Through these gaps we necerily have to face such kind of issues. Regrardless this, you should not take much worry. There are many solutions of your problem now. Ask your partner and visit to fertility clinic. Hope you will find a better solution. Good luck.
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