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March 26, 2018 at 1:12 am #1378GracehillParticipant
Hello everybody.I am new on this forum.I need help.Finally, I had this place where I had to clear my issues.Last year, I was diagnosed that I am not conceiving the child naturally.I was not infertile or having any other issue.Actually, after marriage life we both I and my husband had planned for a long drive.At that time, I was pregnant 6 weeks.Unfortunately, this is the worst day of my life.I had met with an accident.As a result, I was not now able to conceive the child.I am feeling shattered.Need your advice .what should I do.My doctor clearly said that I was not much more in this condition to conceiving naturally.Hope you all give me the better way and suggestions.Thanks in advance.March 26, 2018 at 7:44 am #1383riazoyerParticipant
Dear! no need to worry about these problems. you will be able to get through these things.
I can feel that there is no better thing to feel your baby inside you. And it is very hurting,
not being able to become infertile. I know a people or two who suffered from this condition but there is a
better solution to this problem. You can always go for surrogacy. It is very suitable.
and it will always be useful for you in future.March 26, 2018 at 9:40 am #1384AkiraParticipant
I am also new here.I joined this forum long ago.I like to read the stories of different people.Its been a very long time.I feel happy after reading successful stories of different people.
I’m also infertile.But i had to go for surrogacy.We firstly moved to Europe form Japan.Surrogacy is ban in Japan so we moved there.We stayed in Europe for 4 months.We contacted clinics in Europe.My husband didn’t liked them.Than we moved to Ukraine.As we heard alot about the clinics in Ukraine so we moved there.There we found a very good clinic.The clinic found a good surrogate for us.The surrogate is pregnant with our twin dolls.We are so happy.We are so happy that we will have our own kids now,We are so thankful to the clinic and surrogate.
Everyone cheers and good luck.March 26, 2018 at 10:00 am #1386MilanParticipant
I would go to ur docs an get checked out if you are worried! It could jus be stress from the car crash that is stopping u from getting pregnant at the minute as it was not very long ago! In the mean time don’t get to stressed and enjoy tryin! For peace of mind i would visit a gaenocologist to carry out any necessary tests. That way you know for sure rather than wait around and assume and just get stressed about it. Sometimes when your body or mind has suffered a trauma, shock. It can take a while for everything to run smoothly again. Get checked and good luck. I have a friend battling secondary infertility after a car accident in which she fractured herself. Doctors swear up and down its not related to reproductive organs and to see a fertility specialist. Which she did and everything checks out perfect. Frustrating and heart breaking.March 26, 2018 at 10:32 am #1390MonaParticipant
Hey! I’m really sorry to hear about your MC. It must have been very hard for you. MC is not a small thing. You lose all your hopes. All your dreams are shattered. It’s very painful. I have gone through this. So, I know how bad it feels. It’s very difficult to cope up with all this. But don’t worry. Don’t lose faith in yourself. Everything will be okay. I moved to surrogacy and so should you. It is the most common method of having a child. There are many good clinics in Ukraine. Try doing some research on them. I hope everything gets fine soon. Good luck!March 26, 2018 at 2:31 pm #1411VictoriaParticipant
Hi there! I hope you are fine. I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. It must definitely be very tough. I feel for you. I can’t imagine how hard it must be to go through his kind of loss. Personally, I’m not able to conceive. I have no uterus. It was removed some years back due to cancerous polyps. For this reason, even though I’ve wanted to conceive so badly, I’ve never experienced pregnancy, and thus, an MC. I guess I should be grateful for that. Anyway, I’m glad the options didn’t end there. I went for surrogacy. It’s been a great experience for me. I’d definitely recommend it. Good luck with everything!March 26, 2018 at 2:43 pm #1413Felicia SazParticipant
Hello Grace. I hope you are well. What happened to you is truly devastating. I’m so sorry for your loss too. Getting over it must have been the hardest thing ever. You know, this proved how strong a woman you are. I’m so proud of you. This tragedy that happened to you cannot stop you from becoming a mother ever. Giving birth to your child naturally is not the only way to have children. There are more possibilities for us now. You can go for surrogacy to have a child. That is what I did too. A lot of people are going for it these days. The fertility centers in Ukraine are really affordable too. I went there for my surrogacy. I have a beautiful little boy of my own now. This was the best decision I ever took in my entire life.March 26, 2018 at 5:30 pm #1420MarathaParticipant
Hi there. I am so sorry to hear that. Life can really test you sometimes. Losing something that yours is definitely heart-wrenching. I also had 2 MCs so I can feel your pain. It was probably the worst time of my life. I isolated myself. I used to blame myself for everything. Then I came across the concept of surrogacy. And now only because of it, I have a 5 y/o. I believe that we can’t thank science enough for bringing into existence miracles like IVF and surrogacy. They’ve completed so many families and fulfilled so many dreams. Wishing happiness to all of you. Don’t give up guys. Sooner or later you’ll achieve what you desire for. xMarch 26, 2018 at 8:30 pm #1427hailey johnsonParticipant
Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. Im so sorry to hear about your accident. I want you to have faith. Moments like these test our faith and love of our loved ones. Heres my story. It might give you hope. I got married in 2009. I have had two miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about this Ukraine based clinic. They later introduced us to surrogacy. My husband and I were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I pray that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Love!March 27, 2018 at 10:26 am #1435AnonymousInactive
Sorry to hear about your accident and loss.
There are a number of ways to have a baby now.
Don’t worry dear.
I’m 43 i can’t have a baby from my own womb now.
As i’m going to be married again.My husband will definitely want a baby from me.But i know all the complications of getting pregnant as i previously had many complications while getting pregnant.
So i decided to go for surrogacy.
I also had contacted a clinic too.
Soon they will issue my dates of meeting with them.
I’m so happy that finally i’ll have a baby.March 27, 2018 at 3:00 pm #1443kim01Participant
Hey, I am so sorry for your loss. It is hard to forget such loss. It was fate but you cannot change it. I would suggest you choose surrogacy. I am also a mother of a baby born through surrogacy. I had miscarriages and after that, I had uterus complications. I had no other way than surrogacy. I am so happy that I chose it for me. I went to Europe when I heard a lot of success stories on different forums. It was convenient for me and it is legal in Europe. I have a daughter now she is my biological baby. Hope this would help you.March 27, 2018 at 4:57 pm #1449hailey johnsonParticipant
Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. Im so sorry to hear about your accident. I can understand that you are doing this for your husband. Well im a big advocate of IVF and surrogacy. Heres my story. It might give you hope. I got married in 2009. I have had two miscarriages since then. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then I was told about this Ukraine based clinic. They later introduced us to surrogacy. My husband and I were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now I am blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I pray that everyone gets blessed with children. Best of luck. Cheers!March 27, 2018 at 5:03 pm #1452riazoyerParticipant
My heart aches for you.! I’m praying for you both! My mom has had infertility issues before and it took her a couple of years to get pregnant with me and my twin! You were right about what God does. We may not like it or understand, but in the end, we all end up in the same place. God gives his toughest battles to his toughest soldiers! Pregnancy and Parenthood is a matter of timing. Things happen for a reason. I have much faith that you two will be wonderful parents someday!March 27, 2018 at 5:48 pm #1457Jess blingParticipant
This is such a tragedy.Losing a child after rejoicing the hope of motherhood. Are you okay now? You mentioned that your doctor says you should not conceive. Ask your husband to go for surrogacy. You can use his sperm to have a genetically yours child. Obviously, it will never cover the pain of not having a child from your womb. Though, It is an amazing replacement for your depression trust me.March 27, 2018 at 5:57 pm #1460ezabelParticipant
I feel so sorry for what you have been through.
I understand how it feels. This must be a tough journey to live.
But you must not lose hope anyhow.
You might have so many options left behind you might look into.
But I would suggest you, get your infertility test done as soon as possible.so you might start possible infertility techniques available these days.
I’ve also been declared infertile. And also had two IVF failed. Doctors have suggested me for surrogacy technique.
But I won’t suggest you any technique as long as you are done with your infertility test.
You have to be approved by the doctor either for IVF or surrogacy. Get yourself a good infertility clinic or doctor.
Good luck. Prayers for you. XX
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