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March 23, 2018 at 9:27 am #1301Felicia SazParticipant
Hey Jules. How are you doing? I’m glad you chose surrogacy for yourself. It is a great way to have children if you can’t have them yourself. But, you should also know it can be a risky and sensitive process. In my opinion, it is better to go to a proper clinic for your procedure. Going for surrogacy privately can be risky. You don’t want to deal with risks in this situation. I went to Europe for my surrogacy. My experience was great. This process costs a lot in the USA and I simply couldn’t afford it. We heard about Europe and how affordable they are, we immediately went for it. They are not just affordable but their services are up to the mark too. You should definitely consider them. Good luck.
March 24, 2018 at 10:55 am #1335NINAParticipantHi dear!I hope your health is fine. Surrogacy is a process which can help you have a child. It is used for women who cannot have their own children.
Couples who have tried it and have children because of it are way happier than ever. So couples must try it so that they cannot be deprived of their happiness in life. It is one of the best feelings in the world. Best wishes for you.March 24, 2018 at 5:46 pm #1347AnonymousInactiveI can’t share a list of consultants right here.But i have a one with me.I did a lot of research about surrogacy.
I can share my experience or short story here.
I’m 43 years old now and i have also no luck with babies too.
Now i am married for second time and i am thinking of having a baby again.
But the miscarriages from my last married life make me afraid and stops me getting pregnant again.
I persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy option.
As from my first marriage i had no luck with having a baby.
I had many complications while getting pregnant.
I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage.
I think surrogacy is the best solution now adays where we can have a baby.
I consulted a number of clinics related to surrogacy.
Surrogacy is now adays a common method of having a baby for those women who can’t have a baby out of their own womb.
You better should research about surrogacy and should visit some clinics regarding surrogacy.
But i am worried about some aspects of having a baby from this process.
But as we have no other option left so i guess it is the only solution for us now.March 25, 2018 at 12:55 pm #1360NINAParticipantHi dear! I hope you are in the best of your health. Don’t get upset if you are infertile, instead find an alternate solution.A good scenario is that science has worked its way so high that you can still have your own child through surrogacy. All you need to do is to talk to your DH about the process and convince him. There are a lot of clinics in the whole of Europe that can help you solve your problem. They offer their services at a very good price that you are able to afford.Couples who have been through surrogacy are happy with it. I would suggest all the people suffering from infertility to go for surrogacy. I hope your problems get solved and you can get the help you want.
March 26, 2018 at 3:14 pm #1414NINAParticipantHi dear! I can hope that you are well. Infertility is a problem. Do not let it haunt you for the rest of your life. Thinking about it would lower your confidence and you will not feel good about it. People would talk about you, which you won’t like. In this situation, you need to remain strong and you will be needing the support of your DH in this. My friend was infertile. She went to a clinic in Europe which help her understand, what can be done and what not. She came back understanding the pros and cons of this process and decided to go for it. She was blessed with a baby boy who has eyes like her mother and lips like her father. She is now living happily with the best blessing that life has given her. I hope this helps you take a better decision after all it is your life.
April 5, 2018 at 1:45 pm #1715kim01ParticipantHey, Hope you are doing good. You look so confused. Dont get confused. We went for surrogacy independently. I know it is a big decision but we took it in our way. I faced infertility for many years and after that, I was not able to conceive. I was so upset but that was the fate. I decided to go for surrogacy when I was hopeless of having babies naturally. We went for it to a clinic. We decided to prefer the clinic that gives us the right to the baby so the surrogate may not change her mind. We found the clinic in Europe we went there and they fulfilled all our requirements. They cleared all our insecurities regarding the baby. So we were satisfied. Now we have our babies. It does not matter if you choose an agency or go independently. Just choose a right clinic for it.
April 6, 2018 at 6:33 pm #1747GenySmith1ParticipantHy Jules I will suggest you contact surrogate mothers through agencies. I know it’s a bit expensive than doing it independently but I have seen so many negative stories about independent surrogate mothers. They had even denied giving babies back to intended parents claiming that its hard for them to return the child to IPs. We all know it’s hard but there is the purpose of being a Surrogate mother so we should feel that feeling of being a reason for someone’s happiness.
But if you knew some trustworthy surrogate mother then it doesn’t matter
Good luck on your journey. Cheers.
April 14, 2018 at 12:21 pm #1882TifannyParticipantInfertility, as we know, is an exceptionally frustrating. Emotionally devastating time. Most people would not be able to remove themselves from the situation long enough to objectively evaluate the qualities of a potential surrogate. That is why most surrogate agencies offer extensive psychological screening of their surrogates. Not only is there a qualified specialist who can make a recommendation whether the woman is suitable. But if you are working with an agency that has had significant experience with surrogates. The agency’s personnel also may be able to give you good advice about the woman. Perhaps the greatest danger of working independently is that you remove the very people who can. And should, provide the type of guidance you need. Surrogacy’s failures result from the absence of objectivity. The only thing more tragic than working with an agency that isn’t responsible is not working with one at all. Of course there have been many independent arrangements which have resulted in beautiful babies. Satisfied surrogates, and thrilled couples. You may be just such a person. You may get lucky and find a perfect surrogate. Of you may have found a wonderful couple. But is it worth the risk if you don’t?
May 16, 2018 at 6:44 am #2156MeeParticipantHowdy. Good fortunes with your pursuit. Free surrogates are generally less expensive than an organization. You could get coordinated with conceivable surrogates on Facebook. There are online networking bunches that can be useful. Do investigate those. Fill me in regarding whether you need more data.
June 28, 2018 at 3:21 pm #3720Olivia_1990ParticipantHey! How are you doing? Infertility is a terrible thing that can happen to a person. I am glad you are fighting with it strongly. Do not lose hopes. ALways believe in yourself and you will have a child when it is the right time. I am suffering from a hysterectomy myself and I have been suggested to go for surrogacy. I would want to hear reviews from someone who has experienced surrogacy. Thanks in advance for the help and time!
August 28, 2018 at 4:54 pm #6299kim01ParticipantHi, I hope you are doing fine. I am happy that you asked us. well, many people are facing infertility. Infertility takes a lot out of a woman. I think if you want to go independently or with the agency it doesn’t matter. until you choose the best clinic. I hope that it would help you out. My best wishes are with you.
August 28, 2018 at 5:57 pm #6320milaParticipantHope that you are doing fine. Well, please tell us which clinic you are going to choose. it will help us to figure out that whether you should go to independently or with agencies. It is totally dependent on the clinic you choose. I hope that you will find the best. You can find the amount on the agency official website. They have mentioned over there. It doesn’t matter whether you go alone or with agencies.
August 28, 2018 at 7:42 pm #6344RoseParticipantHi, How are you? I want to wish you the best of luck. Wherever you go for surrogacy I hope you won’t face any problem. And you get the happiness of motherhood as soon as possible. Surrogacy is a blessed method. This works like a miracle. May God bless you stay happy.
August 28, 2018 at 7:56 pm #6350aliannaParticipantHey, I hope you are doing great. I want to know about the clinic you are choosing. It will help us to know that whether it is right to go with an agency or not. It relies on the clinics. I hope you will go for the best. You will know about the price on the official websites. I think you should choose the best clinics that are reliable. If you do so then there is no need to go to agencies.
August 29, 2018 at 12:04 am #6365Mandy MParticipantHey! I recommend you to register with a clinic or agency. Surrogacy is a really smooth procedure if done right. I don’t recommend independent surrogacy to anyone. We often don’t realize how the paper-work is done. We aren’t aware of all the consequences. Agencies and clinics guide their clients much better. They will do your paperwork. They make sure to get you a safe surrogate. Independent surrogates can play different tricks on you. Besides, their lifestyle habits aren’t being monitored either. I always vouch for surrogacy with a good clinic. You can look up different agencies with good reviews. A lot of people here recommend good clinics. Make sure to check them out!
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