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June 24, 2018 at 4:03 am #3312AnonymousInactive
At the age of 43 years old i’m married for second time.
I was married earlier and geting pregnant was not an easy task for me.
I had a number of complications while getting pregnant.
I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage.
Surrogaccy is the best solution for the women who don’t have any luck with babies.
My husband wants a baby from me and i told him everything regarding my pregnancy complications.
So i started looking for some method to have a baby for us.
There is the best clinic regarding surrogacy.
They cleared my confusions reagarding surrogacy.
They satisfied me and they told us they will find a surrogate for my baby.
They have a number of surrogates from their clinic as well.
A surrogate will go through proper testing to become a surrogate mother of my child.
From different forum i came to know that surrogacy is the best solution for us to have a baby.
So i contacted a number of clinics regarding pregnancy.
If someone here is raising a child via surrogacy process please share your experience with us.
Thanks in advance.June 24, 2018 at 8:58 am #3326monikaParticipant
Hey, Olivia, I hope you are well. Really sorry to hear about your MC. I am sure that must have been so difficult. Only people who have been through it can understand the pain of it. Anyways, I think you made a great decision by considering surrogacy. It has proven to be successful for many infertile couples. I am glad you found the perfect clinic. These days a lot of people are sharing their bad experiences with the clinics. It really scares me that such clinics exist that are making it worst for the infertile couples. However, your post brings hope to the mind. Everyone should be well-researched before they opt for the process. It has 70% chance of success. This is pretty high! Best of luck to you I hope everything goes fine. Do keep us updated about the procedure.June 24, 2018 at 11:14 am #3337AkiraParticipant
I am from Japan and was happily married. I had hysterectomy cancer from early stage. I went for the treatment and i was cancer free. But this resulted in lifetime infertility. First 6 years of our marriage passed on happily roaming around the world. After 6 years we both felt the need of our children. But we both knew that i am infertile. So my husband decided that we will go through surrogacy to have a baby. Japan has banned the surrogacy. My husband contacted a number of clinics from around the globe. Than we moved to Europe. In Europe we stayed for 4 months. But we didn’t found a satisfying clinic. After 4 months we moved to Ukraine. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy. We picked a good clinic. The clinic started our process soon and all things went well. The clinic found a good surrogate for us. Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. The clinic and the surrogate made our dream come true of having a baby.
Many people are talking about surrogacy here. I thought i should also share my experience with surrogacy with you people here.
If someone is looking for some good clinics for surrogacy. You should surely go to Ukraine for it.June 24, 2018 at 11:22 am #3341AngelicaParticipant
Hi Olivia! Hope you are in good health. I am glad that you got your confusion regarding surrogacy resolved. I have also been through surrogacy and Have a surrogate baby daughter so I know how a blessing it can be. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure and would recommend it to you too. Ukraine has some of the best clinic. I hope It was helpful. Take careJune 24, 2018 at 12:09 pm #3346AnonymousInactive
Hey Olivia I hope you’re doing well. You had to go through so much! I am really sorry to hear about your loss. MC must have been very difficult for you to cope with. Recurrent MC are even more heart breaking. However, you’re a very strong person! I am glad you didn’t give up. Opting for surrogacy is a great option. So many infertile couples these days are opting for it. It has proven to be highly successful. I am glad you have found a good clinic because that is what matters the most. A good clinic increases the chances of success. I hope everything goes great for you. Do keep us posted about your journey. Sending baby dust your way.June 24, 2018 at 1:05 pm #3359Polina DelanyParticipant
Hi there! Well, yes! Surrogacy is really a good option for women like us. I’m also undergoing in August at a repro center in Kiev. I can’t conceive naturally due to Hysterectomy in past. So, yeah! It’s worth going for. Anyway! You shouldn’t think negatively. 43 is a fine age. I’ve even heard of women in late 40s having a child through surrogacy. So, yeah! Just focus on it! It’s totally worth it.June 24, 2018 at 7:10 pm #3399chicagoParticipant
OliviaSmith that’s the saddest moment of your life. You tried it for the second time but not get success. Finding a surrogate mother is a difficult task. They have to go through a proper process and procedure. All of their features have been tested before selection. Your genes properties are matched with them. if they got more of similarities between them then they select the best match for you. that’s a tough task.June 25, 2018 at 3:04 am #3410keira treyParticipant
hey there! I hope you are doing great. TTC is one of the hardest things a woman has to go through. I am a 43-year-old mother. it wasn’t an easy journey for me. I spent most of my life in pain. I was infertile. and I found out after I miscarried once. it was a painful time for me. so I went for surrogacy. I did not lose hope and I went for surrogacy. surrogacy gave me two babies. I am so happy and I support surrogacy. peace!June 25, 2018 at 9:42 am #3416Alice BlakeParticipant
Hello there. I have also been through surrogacy and Have a surrogate baby daughter so I know how a blessing it can be. I went to Ukraine to have my surrogacy. I wish it goes well for every woman out there. Love.June 25, 2018 at 4:13 pm #3419Anika louisParticipant
I am really sorry for you. I know it is very painful to face infertility. It is hard to choose other ways than pregnancy. I faced infertility for almost 4 years due to polyps disease. I tried some other ways.IVF and IUI failed in my case. Surrogacy was suggested by one of my friends. It was the only option remained left for me so I went for it. I went to a suggested clinic that was reliable. It was situated in Europe. It was convenient for me to go there because it is allowed in our country. It was well known for surrogacy so I made my mind. Now I have a baby and I am so happy to have him. I wish you best of luck.June 25, 2018 at 4:54 pm #3420RoseParticipant
I think you should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing. Surrogacy is mostly successful. And it is best for every infertile couple. And It is also less expensive. You can have the babies of your own genes through surrogacy. I had also a baby through surrogacy. Surrogacy is awesome. Best of luck.June 25, 2018 at 5:36 pm #3421Kate AdamsParticipant
Hi Olivia! Hope you are in good health. I am glad that you got your confusion regarding surrogacy resolved. I have also been through surrogacy and Have a surrogate baby daughter so I know how a blessing it can be. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure and would recommend it to you too. I hope It was helpful. Take care.June 26, 2018 at 6:49 am #3435AngelicaParticipant
Hi Olivia! Hope you are in good health. I am sorry for your infertility situation. I know it a very heavy burden to bear since I have also been down this road. There is nothing wrong with opting for surrogacy. I went for surrogacy from Ukraine and consider it to be the best decision of my life. I am now a mother of a baby girl. I believe surrogacy will work for you too. Take care.June 26, 2018 at 1:27 pm #3480CatherineParticipant
Hello dear intended mom, hope you are doing great. I am sorry to learn that you could not see your dreams coming true till this age. Plus it is your second marriage too. You have suffered both physically and mentally. It is good that instead of stopping at one point you have decided to move on. It is really something very important. You accepted your deficiency realistically. Your search came up with the right option. Surrogacy is indeed a helpful way out. It has transformed the lives of many infertile couples. You will be a lucky one soon too. Your dream is not much far. It would be a great sharing if you keep posting your surrogacy experience. Before planning out and actually going for the surrogacy it is better to complete all the pre-procedure essentials. Choosing the clinic and the surrogate carefully can be of extreme importance. Once these early steps are completed don’t forget to complete the legal documents. This is very important to save yourself from the future complications.June 26, 2018 at 3:12 pm #3496Mrs McguillParticipant
Miscarriages are never easy. Each one of them takes away a part of you. I am happy to know that you are not giving up and taking a wise decision. At this age, you are opting for surrogacy. I hope it turns out in the best possible way and soon you have a beautiful child. It is really important for a clinic to assure the parents regarding the procedure. Naturally, it is a complicated process and the couple going through it will have a lot of questions. I myself had a lot of questions when I had to opt for surrogacy. I am glad that the clinic answered your questions and cleared your confusion regarding it.
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