Experience With Surrogacy
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May 20, 2018 at 1:55 pm #2289AkiraParticipant
I’m sharing my journey of Surrogacy with you.
I’m basically from Japan we are settled in Japan from past few years.We are happily married.I’m totally infertile now as i had hysterectomy cancer and as i result i am infertile now. But my husband was there with me every time. Than we searched about surrogacy and found it best solution for us.
As Japan has banned surrogacy so we moved to Europe to find our dream come true.Than we moved to Ukraine as we heard there are many good clinics regarding surrogacy in Ukraine.In Ukraine we found BioTexCom and consulted them.They helped us to find a good surrogate mom.Now she is pregnant with our twin daughters.We are very excited about having two daughters.We are so thankful to the clinic.The surrogates mom are kind they let us have our dream come true.
Share your stories tooMay 22, 2018 at 11:14 am #2335RozinaParticipant
Hi there how are you? It’s such a touching story. The best thing was you never lose hope. your husband was a big support for you.congrats for the twins. I am so happy to see you happy. You will now have only good time. Best of luck my dear friendMay 22, 2018 at 2:36 pm #2346kim01Participant
Hey. Surrogacy is indeed a blessing for many couples. I am one of them. I have faced infertility after my miscarriages. It really broke my heart. But no one can change his/her destiny. I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic provided me with a healthy surrogate. I was happy that I chose it. I am a happy mother now. I am happy that I chose it. People are now much aware of such processes. I hope this would help others too.May 22, 2018 at 2:59 pm #2349milaParticipant
Surrogacy is to be sure a gift for some couples. I am one of them. I have confronted infertility for 10 years. The reason was unknown. It extremely made me extremely upset. However, nobody can change fate. I chose to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The facilitated me with facilities. I was glad that I picked it. I am a glad mother now. I am glad that I picked it. Individuals are currently much mindful of such procedures. I trust this would help other people as well.May 22, 2018 at 3:31 pm #2354Felicia SazParticipant
Hi Akira. How are you doing? I loved reading this post. I’m glad you chose surrogacy for yourself. the clinic you mentioned here sounds like a great one. It provides so many facilities. Congratulations to you. You deserved all this.May 22, 2018 at 3:35 pm #2357Sarah WilliamsParticipant
Hey Akira! Just went through your post. Yes! I’ve heard it that surrogacy is still banned in some countries all over the world. Oh, well, yes! Ukraine is a better option, I agree. Even, my own cousin Mary had her surrogacy procedure last year. She also had it in a Ukrainian center, which went pretty fine for her. So, yeah! Anyway! I hope you get those twin. You really deserve to have it. Yes! Surrogates are really angels, I agree.May 22, 2018 at 3:35 pm #2358AnonymousInactive
I have been trying to conceive from last 10 years now.Until now i don’t had any luck with it.
I had several attempts of IVF and IUI.But i failed at them too.I don’t know whats the main cause for these.
I contacted a number of clinics regarding my infertility issue.But the doctors can’t also find the main cause for my infertility.
The doctors are also not sure that whats the main cause for infertility.They also can’t tell that should i’ll have a baby naturally or not.
So i am getting old now and i guess keep on waiting is not a good idea.I got suggestions from my friends to go for surrogacy.They say that i can have a baby via surrogacy.
I don’t know much about surrogacy but i searched about it over the web and found that many people are going for it to have a baby.
But as i live in Bulgaria.Here surrogacy is totally ban.I don’t know what to do.
From forums i came to hear about that Ukraine has many good clinics regarding surrogacy.
I think i should move to Ukraine for surrogacy now.
If someone has experience about surrogacy please guide me.May 22, 2018 at 5:26 pm #2370ezabelParticipant
Felt sad hearing about your cancer. You would be having tough times. But glad that you had your path to come out of this situation. I am hearing so much about this procedure these days. That this is making me believe each time that it would also work for me soon. Two days back even I got interacted with the women who also had surrogate pregnant with twins. And even I said this to her that she is making the way much easy for the ones who are supposed to follow the path of surrogacy. Congratulations to you. Have a happy time with family soon.May 23, 2018 at 11:51 am #2405Palestina-goParticipant
Good afternoon! I had my journey finished recently. I’d like to share it in shorts.
I had a tumor and during surgery my womb was removed. My husband and I we tried to conceived before it. After that terrible event we were very upset. Many aspects of life were closed down for us. I was afraid of our divorce. I was happily mistaken. My husband was next to me till the end.
Our journey took place in Ukraine. It’s rather popular destination now. Many people visit Ukraine for having fertility journey. It was several years ago. Now I’m a happy mother of twins. It was literally a safe journey thank God!May 24, 2018 at 5:10 pm #2429Jessica fieldsParticipant
I wish you didn’t have to travel so far. Though I am glad for the baby. I am planning to suggest my friend surrogacy. I am thinking of recommending the same place. I hope everything goes well for her too. Best of luck to you hun. Loads of hugs and kisses XOXOMay 26, 2018 at 1:03 pm #2449Jessica SmithParticipant
Hey Akira! Hope so you are doing good. I’m glad to know that you are adopting surrogacy. I have heard many great reviews about it. One of my relatives is the victim of infertility. She has lost all hope. Could you guide her about surrogacy? How could we contact them? Her decision may depend on your suggestion.
My Heartiest congratulation.May 31, 2018 at 6:36 pm #2579monikaParticipant
Hey, Akira I hope you’re doing well. Congratulations to you! I hope everything goes well for you. I feel so happy for couples who have struggled for so long and are finally able to find peace. It will be amazing to hear your entire surrogacy journey. As I myself have been researching a lot about it. Due to the problem, I am suffering through none of the other treatments have been able to help me. Whether it be IVF or IUI. Therefore, I am searching more and more. I actually got recently in touch with the clinic over there who were kind enough to run me through the process. Surprisingly, they also invited me to the free consultation meeting which includes accommodation as well. I was so shocked at the generosity. After visiting them learned a lot about so many things. I hope everything goes well. Best of luck for a safe pregnancy as well.June 2, 2018 at 6:55 pm #2636AngelicaParticipant
Hi Akira! Hope you are doing great. I find your story very relatable since I have faced similar situations. I am from Germany and surrogacy is banned here. Just like you I had to search for internationally clinics. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure and had the best time there. I am not mother of a baby girl that I had through surrogacy. I wish you the best of luck. Take care.June 9, 2018 at 7:30 am #2832Emma412Participant
I am happy that this is been great with you. You are recommending it to others now. Everything is great and in your favor. I don’t think you should feel bad for any of the thing now. I mean, I know you felt so bad. You just need to think about it. Everything is great now. You survived the bad things. Now I pray and I wish that everything is great for you. Try to take care a lot.June 10, 2018 at 10:33 am #2867TrishaParticipant
Very little research has been conducted on the experiences of surrogate mothers. Only a handful of studies have included interviews with women about their experiences of surrogacy and their reasons for choosing to be a surrogate mother. From a sample of 19 surrogate mothers, it was found that there were many different reasons for the decision to become a surrogate mother, such as financial gain, enjoyment of pregnancy/childbirth, and obtaining a sense of self worth and value (Blyth, 1994). It was also found that 10 of the 19 surrogate mothers experienced some form of negative response from those around them. The sample consisted of women who were at different stages of the surrogacy process; that is, some women were interviewed whilst pregnant, whereas others had given birth to a surrogate child who had reached school age. All of the women had been recruited through a United Kingdom surrogacy agency, though this may not give a true representation of all surrogate mothers as not all surrogacy arrangements are made through an agency. In some cases, surrogate mothers are relatives or friends of the commissioning couple. An American qualitative study (Ragoné, 1994) also examined the motivations for surrogate mothers deciding to embark upon surrogacy.
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