Hey. Surrogacy is indeed a blessing for many couples. I am one of them. I have faced infertility after my miscarriages. It really broke my heart. But no one can change his/her destiny. I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic provided me with a healthy surrogate. I was happy that I chose it. I am a happy mother now. I am happy that I chose it. People are now much aware of such processes. I hope this would help others too.

Hi Akira. How are you doing? I loved reading this post. I’m glad you chose surrogacy for yourself. the clinic you mentioned here sounds like a great one. It provides so many facilities. Congratulations to you. You deserved all this.

I have been trying to conceive from last 10 years now.Until now i don’t had any luck with it.
I had several attempts of IVF and IUI.But i failed at them too.I don’t know whats the main cause for these.
I contacted a number of clinics regarding my infertility issue.But the doctors can’t also find the main cause for my infertility.
The doctors are also not sure that whats the main cause for infertility.They also can’t tell that should i’ll have a baby naturally or not.
So i am getting old now and i guess keep on waiting is not a good idea.I got suggestions from my friends to go for surrogacy.They say that i can have a baby via surrogacy.
I don’t know much about surrogacy but i searched about it over the web and found that many people are going for it to have a baby.
But as i live in Bulgaria.Here surrogacy is totally ban.I don’t know what to do.
From forums i came to hear about that Ukraine has many good clinics regarding surrogacy.
I think i should move to Ukraine for surrogacy now.
If someone has experience about surrogacy please guide me.

Good afternoon! I had my journey finished recently. I’d like to share it in shorts.
I had a tumor and during surgery my womb was removed. My husband and I we tried to conceived before it. After that terrible event we were very upset. Many aspects of life were closed down for us. I was afraid of our divorce. I was happily mistaken. My husband was next to me till the end.
Our journey took place in Ukraine. It’s rather popular destination now. Many people visit Ukraine for having fertility journey. It was several years ago. Now I’m a happy mother of twins. It was literally a safe journey thank God!

Hey Akira! Hope so you are doing good. I’m glad to know that you are adopting surrogacy. I have heard many great reviews about it. One of my relatives is the victim of infertility. She has lost all hope. Could you guide her about surrogacy? How could we contact them? Her decision may depend on your suggestion.
My Heartiest congratulation.

Hi Akira! Hope you are doing great. I find your story very relatable since I have faced similar situations. I am from Germany and surrogacy is banned here. Just like you I had to search for internationally clinics. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure and had the best time there. I am not mother of a baby girl that I had through surrogacy. I wish you the best of luck. Take care.

Very little research has been conducted on the experiences of surrogate mothers. Only a handful of studies have included interviews with women about their experiences of surrogacy and their reasons for choosing to be a surrogate mother. From a sample of 19 surrogate mothers, it was found that there were many different reasons for the decision to become a surrogate mother, such as financial gain, enjoyment of pregnancy/childbirth, and obtaining a sense of self worth and value (Blyth, 1994). It was also found that 10 of the 19 surrogate mothers experienced some form of negative response from those around them. The sample consisted of women who were at different stages of the surrogacy process; that is, some women were interviewed whilst pregnant, whereas others had given birth to a surrogate child who had reached school age. All of the women had been recruited through a United Kingdom surrogacy agency, though this may not give a true representation of all surrogate mothers as not all surrogacy arrangements are made through an agency. In some cases, surrogate mothers are relatives or friends of the commissioning couple. An American qualitative study (Ragoné, 1994) also examined the motivations for surrogate mothers deciding to embark upon surrogacy.