Hello stormi, how are you? this is such an awesome post.
it is the same pain of all of us. when people ask such kind of questions, it hurts a lot.
it’s a dream of every woman to become a mum.
I am 28 years old. its 4th year of our marriage.
My DH is very loving and caring. but nothing can substitute a baby.
I have infertile eggs due to which I cannot conceive.
but it is very tough time for me when people asked such questions.
I wish all that are suffering from this hard time may have this blessing.

HI. I totally agree with you. I’m glad you acknowledged this. A lot of people understand this. I think everyone does. But I don’t understand how people become so heartless and ask such questions with the ones suffering. Trust me every person struggling with fertility has to face this. People really don’t care about someone’s feeling. Especially the close ones. Every struggling person needs to develop a coping mechanism in order to deal with such situations. I really hope things work out for such people. Everyone deserves to be a parent. The clinic I went to has made this possible for so many people. I think you all should check it out.

how to face harsh questions of the people about being infertile? It is really a big challenge. People often become too harsh. They don’t realise how much it hurts. I would suggest you to learn to become really hard at heart. Listen to everything the people say but don’t pat extra attention. They always have queries. People do not spare tjose who are already parents. It is a social trend and you need to learn to be ignorant.

hi there. I second your thoughts. This is indeed a dilemma. The couple is already going through a lot and then questions like these.Depression is so common these days we all feel same when we think too much. I research too much about this and found some points i want all experienced people to suggest me like Having a baby is both an exciting and challenging time.Adding anxiety or depression can make it difficult to function and feel like you are a good enough parent. It makes the situation worse. I think the information should only be shared with very close people. I went for IVF but kept it confidential.It was successful after few attempts. And then we shared the news with our relatives.

Hi dear. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I really agree with you. this is the case with many people. however its all in our mind. Being infertile is not our fault. its natural. you cant do anything about it. So its nothing to be ashamed of. It shows how strong are you. Must people cant take the burden of infertility. I know i am an infertile people. Science has come a long way. there are ways for us now. Surrogacy IVF. I hope people stay strong. good luck to all. Take care.

Stay Blessed.

Hi there. How are you doing? Hope you are doing good. We are doing fine. I read your post. TTC is tough, no doubt. It is the hardest time of a woman’s life. Infertility is a big issue. It is very sad to see couples going through this. I think being 38 you shouldn’t go for IVF. I think you should go for surrogacy. IVF success rates are pretty low after 33 years of age. That what I think. Rest is up to you. Hope all goes well for you guys.