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  • #3733

    Mrs Mcguill
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    I understand what you are going through. I will be a mother of two daughters soon. But I will not be the biological mother. I will have them through surrogacy. My surrogate even donated her eggs. So my daughters will not have a single quality of me. This makes my heart break too. But I think that these things do not matter if you start loving the child as your own. As long as you love your children like your own, the children will not forget that love. There is no reason to keep this a secret. Children should know. But they should also know that you love them. And that should be enough. Do not stress yourself over these issues. These things do not matter.

    #3758

    rooha12
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    Hello everyone . I always think that i am an optimist . The person who is positive towards life always suffers more . I get married at my earlier age . After sometime I came to know that I was a victim of infertility . Doctor said that I was weak to perform IVF . My husband remarried to have his family . I didn’t blame him . It was my fault . I love kid a lot. Then I decided to adopt a child . During my work trip I visited a clinic in UK . I discussed my issues with doctor . They suggested me surrogacy . I decided to give it a try . They provided me with the best surrogate mother . Treatment their was less expensive as compared to others . I have twins and they are love of my life . So if you are experiencing the same . Then go for surrogacy like me . Remember difficult journeys make our destination beautiful . Be happy in you life . Best of luck

    #3766

    Olivia.markle
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    I am so sorry to hear that. It is just so sad. But don’t pay attention to what people might think about you. Be strong and do what your heart tells you to do. You can either adopt a child. Or go for any of the IVF or surrogacy treatments. But do not lose hope. This is just another brick in the wall. You are going to get over it. Best wishes with you <3

    #3771

    Aria
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    I feel so sorry for what you are facing. Infertility is curse happens in a life. I can understand it is very painful. But you need not be a worry. You can have a biological child through surrogacy. Surrogacy is the blessing for the infertile. I had faced infertility for 5 years. Then I came to know to about surrogacy. I opted for it and went to Ukraine for my surrogacy. Finally, the day came which waited for so long. I had blessed with a baby boy through surrogacy. I suggest you should also go for surrogacy. Good luck

    #3790

    Anonymous

    I feel grief for you. I know it’s difficult for you to face such consequences. I can comprehend your torment. You’d be enough strong and self-dependent to fight with such conditions. Don’t consider what other people say. You’d be happy with yourself. Well, surrogacy is an option for infertility treatment. Many people have benefited themselves from it. But the main thing is choosing the right clinic. Beware of the scammers like Adonis and Lotus Clinic. They are located in Europe. Everyone knows that Europe is known for its surrogacy friendly environment. That’s the reason, these clinics are taking advantage of it. Every sixth couple is fighting with infertility. So, I must say that they shouldn’t lose hope and give surrogacy a try.

    #3802

    smash12
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    I am sorry for what you are facing now. I know how it kills from inside. I also faced this situation. But I did not lose hope. So, we decided to go for surrogacy. Now I am the successful mother of the surrogate baby. You should also try this.

    #3819

    aana
    Participant

    Hello there! how are you doing? Sorry to hear about your losses. Infertility is a nightmare. I can understand this phase. You can go for IVF. I know a clinic in northern Europe. They treat infertility.Good luck.

    #3899

    Anonymous

    I am really sorry about your problem.I know how you feel. About not having your own biological child. But I have seen many parents. They have adopted children. They are confident about their children. It should not be a big deal for you. You should be confident about your child. I have seen many cases in which biological children don’t give a room to their parents. They send them to old age homes. On the other hand, adopted children in most of the cases take all of their parents responsibility. So you should raise your child is a beautiful way. That what should be most important to you. I wish you a very good luck.

    #3910

    Julia Christine
    Participant

    Dear Tifanny! Hope so you will be fine. I just read your post. I really felt so sad to know about your condition. But don’t lose hope. You can also go for surrogacy or IVF. In this way, the child who will have taken birth, her actions and things would be similar to you. I think you should adopt one of them. I may help you.
    All my sympathies are with you

    #3927

    Fitsuk
    Participant

    Hi there, hope you are doing well. Sorry to hear about your infertility. I know things are hard for you. Just be patient and stay strong. This will help you. Don’t be sad nor be worried. Everything will be fine soon. I know it’s a prime wish of every woman to have a child of her own DNA. But be positive. This will help you a lot. Thanks.

    #4188

    Emma412
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    Everybody wish that. You don’t have to worry. There are a lot of options for you. You can choose whatever you like. Don’t take tension. Everything will be alright with you. Just take good care of yourself.

    #4218

    Alina
    Participant

    Hey there. I’m Infertile and doctors tell me that you can get a treatment from the best clinic. Then my relatives suggest me that Lotus clinic is near to your home you can visit it. Then, we go to that clinic. The peoples of the staff is very bad. They cannot pay attention to my problem. There doctors are also uneducated they cannot check up me. No one can hear me and then they said that the clinic is closed, come again next day.

    #4219

    lidya
    Participant

    Hey there! deep inside we all want our biological child. You are correct. That does happen. How we adore all the moments where we get to know that we look alike our parents. That’s feels just so good. But destiny might drag you down where you got to use donor eggs. Everything happens for a reason. And we are fortunate that we have got such a thing where you could have a baby. Even having zero hopes as stated by doctors. But yeah you could have your biological child by means of surrogacy. If that fits you well. Or you could go with donor ones. Best of luck and if ever you are worried please contact your doctor and let them know your concerns that’s what they are there for. Eventually, you will get to the point in your pregnancy that it will hit you that everything will be alright. Best Wishes!

    #4234

    Anonymous

    Hey Tiffany I can understand what you are going through. It can be a really difficult journey. I myself am on the same boat. Infertility is full of lows and highs. However, you just have to keep trying. I think it is the love that makes a family. You shouldn’t give up. Search about surrogacy and see if it will work for you. It is a highly successful procedure. That way you can have children that are biologically yours. Research about it. Look into various clinics. For the procedure it is really important that the clinic you visit has a high success rate. They should have doctors who are professionals. Best of luck and don’t lose hope.

    #4302

    Celeste
    Participant

    Well, It’s a desire of every infertile woman. You must not be worried. Everything is going to be alright. You should take good care of yourself. It’s going to be great.

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