I’m very sad to hear you had to go through this, its heartbreaking when you lose a child. I myself had gone through 3 miscarriages before my eldest was born. I went into a depression and couldn’t get out of bed. I know how you feel and believe me you’re not alone. Give yourself some time to heal mentally and emotionally. I gave myself a whole year before trying again. Stay strong and keep your faith in yourself. This time will pass and you will get over this grief. Best of luck!

Hi, dear. I hope you are doing great. So sorry to hear that you had been TTC in vain. I guess you are doing so good by sharing it with us. So, you have identified what is causing the problem- polycystic ovaries. Thrombophilia is a grave problem, as you have experienced first hand. So, I am sure your story helps bring awareness around thrombophilia. Great to hear that your DH is so supportive all along. I understand how others can be so negative in these crucial times. So, it makes sense to have someone so supportive next to you. I have never dealt with polycycstic ovaries, however, I will be sharing your post with others. I have had a friend, Sonia, dealing with it. I am happy to hear that I am going to be able to suggest her something. GOod to know that there are solutions that one can take it. I appreciate your post so much. I wish you the best of luck. Don’t forget to keep us updated.

So true. Life is not always fair to everyone. I can say that you have been through a lot. But you never gave up. Battling with thrombophilia must have been a battle itself. But it is better that it was identified. Rather than you could be getting pregnant and losing the children. That could mean you could be going along way. However, with the medication did still help. Do not despair dear. There is a long life ahead. You should live it with confidence and love. At time the search for a child leaves us heartbroken. That we forget other things that we have. We so much focus on having a child. That we do not enjoy the moment. That is so bad. It is like stressing one self. In which at that particular situation it is not good fo0r your health. While TTC you should be happy and relaxed. Do not stress yourself over the failure of not having a child. That is not your mistake. I can call it nature. Rather, focus on positivity and good vibes. I believe while you are trying to get a child. The luck will come on its own along the way.

I am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own.
I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback.
There are very good clinics regarding surrogacy as i’m sharing my experience with all of you.
For now i have convinced mt husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too.
You should also have a look at BioTexCom clinic.
I contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions.
I suggest you to go for this clinic and atleast you should contact them and share your problem with them so that they can propose a better solution for you.
As they suggested surrogacy option for us.
Now they are looking for a good woman for our baby who can carry our baby in her womb for 9 months.
They will find a good female with all clear tests so that we don’t have to face any issue later.
But i am worried about somethings also.
But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us.
Positive feedback will be appreciated.

Hey! this not end of life. I tried to conceive a baby 3 times but the result was a miscarriage. I can understand what you are suffering from. Surrogacy is last option. I suggest you go for it. The baby that would be carried by surrogate mother, will belong to you genetically. There is nothing bad in it. The Ukrainian clinic is best for surrogacy. You should visit it. Don’t lose hope. You can also go for IVF process. But I would suggest you surrogacy because it is more successful. I have heard success stories of surrogacy.hope this would work.

Well Elani, it’s really sad. But you seem to be a brave lady as you have shared your story here. Yes, life is sometimes very harsh. Even you don’t know why is all this happening to you. Three years back when I was diagnosed with double infertility I was in the same condition in which you are nowadays. Life seemed to be like hell. I thought that I was the only person who was facing this problem. But then I joined a group of people having the same issue. This condition is very rear. When both the partners are infertile. There someone suggested my surrogacy. My husband wanted adoption. But I convinced him. When you have a better option in the form of surrogacy. Then why going for adoption. Now, next month I am going to Ukraine for my surrogacy. I am quite relaxed and hopeful now. Because the clinic I have selected is one of the best clinics in the world. I am quite sure I will be successful. You also try to find the other ways of getting the most wanted wish of your life. Good luck.