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November 15, 2017 at 12:36 pm #630Race JordanParticipant
Hello girls I’m new to the forum and even though I am a little shy as a character I decided to write to you in order to know if there are similar experiences and opinions from people who do not know me, do not mind me, I want to stop talking to my well-known people about my effort because I see that they are looking at me with regret ….. and that’s what makes me very nervous … anyway my story is as follows … with my husband we started free contacts from 2014 at first I did not frown because I had a gynecologist who told me everything was good, to inseminate without having done any examination, …. so I do not know how to change gynecologist after 3 years I have had a saliva I found polyps of the endometrium and I removed it I asked him to help me get pregnant and you told me you are line 3 now totally clear when you get pregnant again …… and as you understand again I changed gynecologist for three months immediately started my vitamins and my husband and this month I injected pregnyl 5000 but I did not reapply … … I’m starting to disappoint …… why didn’t I see a result of the injection?I apologize for the huge text …….. and I wrote only half
November 19, 2017 at 5:36 pm #639jenniflowerParticipantHi there Race. How are you doing my firend? Is everything okay? I hope that you asnwer htese questions positively. Life as we know would be super broing had there not been issues with it. It is also impossible to live a quiet life… Troubles, issues, will come no matter what we do to prevent them. Don’t worry too much as this is something that will pass by! Since the injection didn’t work dear, why didn’t you reapply. Maybe you just need to try a few more times. I know that this sounds stupid. Especially coming from somebody who hasn’t been through the same as you but… Think of it this way: sacrifices are necessary to reach happines. Try to convince yourself to start all over again. Or try to find whats really causing the injection to not work… You diagnosis might be wrong dear. God bless you and please update further details! I would love to hear more!
November 22, 2017 at 12:15 am #689BlancheParticipantHi, it is a hard situation to struggle through this. Having different opinions and not having results freaks you out. It is ok to pour your emotions. I will ask you to visit a proper consultant. It may take some time. You will go through proper examination and will get to know the root cause of your problem. I myself faced many problems during the first year. Don’t lose hope. You will get best results!
November 22, 2017 at 12:46 am #691Heidi GwenParticipantHello Race. Sorry to hear that. It seems that you went through quite a rough patch. You didnt mention how ong have you been ttc for? Please do mention that. May I ask a couple of questions please? You mentioned that the doctor diagnosed you with endometrium. Also, you mentioned that it was cured. Is that the case? If yes, then what treatment did you undergo? You see, I was diagnosed with endo too a little while ago. That is why I am interested. I am unsure about how to proceed. So, I want to tak to people with good experiences. Your insight would be appreciated.
November 22, 2017 at 1:21 am #692ImogenParticipantHi Race Jordan. I am sorry to hear about your problems. It seems that you haven’t been lucky in terms of doctors. I think you were misdiagnosed. Have you considered going to a new doctor altogether? Take time to research. FInd a good doctor in your area. Go for an fertility specialist. Instead of an OB. If possible, even look putside your locality. However, that might not be practical. This is because infertility treatments can last for a long time. I hope this was helpful. Do let me know if you want more information. I would be happy to guide you.
November 22, 2017 at 1:43 am #693Jolia CarterParticipantHello, Race Jordan how do you do? Why you are thinking before changing gynecologist? If you are not satisfied with the one you have right to change. Do you have any child before? You did not clear that which injections you are talking about? I am giving you a sincere suggestion to go for IVF. Go for it after suggesting from fertility doctor. If they are for fertility treatment/ IVF then ask the specialist. You should have some tests of hormones and others. Take care of your diet and health. I wish you very good of luck.
November 22, 2017 at 4:13 am #694Aria millerParticipantHello Race. I understand what you mean. Sometimes talking to strangers is so much easier. There is no fear of judgement. Neither do we need to worry about what anyone is thinking. Especially on forums like this. Everyone is just so supportive. It makes it easier to open up. Now coming back to the issue at hand. You don’t sound satisfied with your doctors. Well, then you should go for some other doctor. Don’t hesitate. It is important to be confident about your choice of doctor. Ask others for suggestions based on their experiences. Let me know if you want more information.
November 22, 2017 at 4:19 am #696Elektra GiaParticipantHello Race Jordan! Hope you are very well. So sorry to know about your past experience. So, you are trying to TTC basically but sorry to say that you were in wrong hands continuously. Like each gynecologist have different views and different techniques. So, changing gynecologist each time can take you to a high-risk level. You have to start it again with proper research about the success rates of that clinic or specialist. There is nothing wrong in consulting a fertility specialist at least once maybe he or she can clear more issues regarding this. I wish you Good Luck
November 22, 2017 at 4:46 am #697Ella wilsonParticipantHello Race Jordan. I really like your name. It sounds so athletic 🙂 I am sorry for the trouble you are facing. I hope you manage to find a solution. To be honest, I’m a little confused. Your doctor says there is nothing wrong? Then why are you unable to conceive? How long have you been trying for? If its been a few months only then the doctor might be right. The delay might just be poor timing or luck. However, if its been longer, then the diagnosis might be wrong. You should get a second opinion. Get all the tests done again. I hope everything turns out to be fine.
November 22, 2017 at 4:46 am #698Ella wilsonParticipantHi Marion. I’m afraid I’m a bit confused. So, everything is alright? No problem with either you or your husband? It can take some time for fertile couples to conceive. However, 1.5 years is quite long. I would say getting a second opinion would be a good idea.
November 22, 2017 at 4:55 am #699June MikeParticipantHello! It can be hard changing gynaecologist when you’ve been with them for such a long time. Its hard being as open to the new doctor you have no previous experience with. I always got regretful and pitying looks whenever I told my doctor or my friends of my story so don’t think you’re alone. Using pregnyl 5000 can be dangerous as it should never be used on women who have primary ovulation failure. I hope yours are alright as it can have serious side effects. Do give it some time as it can be ineffective for some women. Do go to your doctor again and ask for revaluation just to be sure. I hope I answered all of your questions sufficiently. Good luck!
November 22, 2017 at 4:58 am #701juliaandersonParticipantHi there. Sad to hear that. I understand how frustrating it must be for you. TTC is tough work. It requires a lot of patience. It seems to me you haven’t had much luck with doctors. You don’t sound too satisfied. However, I fee that it would be better if you just stick to one. Instead of continuously shifting between doctors. Each doctor has a different way of treating their patients. When you change, you are forced to adapt to these different techniques. This can cause problems for your body. So, just look for a good doctor. Take your time finding the right one. Once you don find one, just stay with them.
November 22, 2017 at 5:12 am #703jennaParticipantHi Race. I comprehend what you mean. At times conversing with outsiders is so substantially simpler. There is no dread of judgment. Neither do we have to stress over what anybody is considering. Particularly in discussions like this. Everybody is recently so strong. It makes it less demanding to open up. Presently returning to the current issue. You don’t sound happy with your specialists. Indeed, at that point, you ought to go to some other specialist. Try not to worry so much. It is critical to be certain about your decision of specialist. Approach others for recommendations in view of their encounters. Fill me in regarding whether you need more data.
November 22, 2017 at 5:17 am #705bailey osterParticipantHi Race Jordan. I can understand what you’re going through. I had trouble conceiving too. Doctors kept saying everything was fine. That it was just a matter of time before I conceived. However, even after 2 years, I had no luck. Finally, I decided to go to another doctor. He found the problem after a few routine tests. I had a small fibroid on one of the tubes. Now, I have gotten it removed. As soon as I am feeling strong enough, we wil resume trying to conceive. The doctor thinks I won’t have problems now. I sure hope so. Maybe you should also try some other doctor. I hope you find a solution too.
November 22, 2017 at 5:23 am #707jennaParticipantHi Race. I am sad for the inconvenience you are confronting. I trust you figure out how to discover an answer. To be completely forthright, I’m somewhat confounded. Your specialist says there is not much? At that point why are you unfit to consider? To what extent have you been striving for? On the off chance that it’s been a couple of months at exactly that point the specialist may be correct. The postponement may very well be poor planning or good fortune. In any case, if it’s been longer, at that point the conclusion may not be right. You ought to get a moment conclusion. Complete every one of the tests once more. I trust everything ends up being fine.
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