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March 21, 2018 at 5:34 pm #1255AnonymousInactive
“Hello everyone, If anyone had gone through infertility issues then please give me some advice.
I am very much worried about the current situation that I am facing.
I am 33 years old and I was revealed few months back that I am suffering from heart disease. This disease is called mitral stenosis. In this disease the blood do not flow in a regular manner.
Rather the blood flows in the opposite direction. You can say that in my vein and arteries of heart, there is a turbulent flow of blood. If normally blood flows from left to right, then in my system it flows from right to left.
There is no streamline flow of blood.
I was pregnant few months back and was very happy because me and my husband are very fond of kids.
We were very excited for our new upcoming baby.
But the duration of our happiness was very short as I go through miscarriage.
And after miscarriage, doctor asks me to stop conceiving again.
Now I want to ask what are the other ways I should opt for having my own baby.
And the most importnat thing is that how much expense shoud be there to meet all the requirements for having a baby.
As we are a middle class family and can’t afford very high expenses at all. But the need of a kid is still there.
So please suggest some good idea that is affordable as well as successful.”March 21, 2018 at 6:36 pm #1257Joanne SilviaParticipant
Hello Brooklyn. I can relate to this post on a very personal level. I’m sorry to hear about your infertility. However, you do have plenty of options. I’d suggest surrogacy. It is a bit on the expensive side, but I’m sure you can find cheaper options in Europe. I hope this helps you decide.March 22, 2018 at 3:25 pm #1267monikaParticipant
Hey, Brooklyn, I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure it must have been extremely difficult for you and your family to cop4e up with. My honest advice to you would be to go for surrogacy. Now, finance was definitely an issue for me as well. As I couldn’t even think about getting it from my hometown due to the heavy amount attached to it. After which I started researching on the internet. I found a clinic abroad through it which basically offers two packages. So I had the option of going to a clinic which catered to my needs. They had an economic and a VIP package. For me honestly, both were VIP as I had seen a clinic in my area who offered nothing and were still double the price. However, when it comes to surrogacy you need to be very careful. As you’re not sure what to expect. I had to research on the legal terms as well and I was glad to find the strict rules and measures with which the clinic was moving ahead. So I guess you should also research on it and see if it suits you. I hope the very best to you and sending in lots of baby dust.March 23, 2018 at 5:24 am #1280AnonymousInactive
surrogacy is the most common method or way of having a child.
i was also very stressed during my first marriage as i had many complications while getting pregnant.
I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage.
I’m 43 years old now.
Now i am married again and me and my husband are thinking of having of having a baby.
I guess keeping in aspects like me a woman should probably go for surrogacy method to have a baby..
We are looking for a good clinic to support us and guide us through the whole process.
BioTexCom is a good clinic with very good reputation. MAy be you can have a look at it.
We researched about a number of clinics over the web and found many good clinics as well.
You should also do research about surrogacy related clinics as well over the web and look for the best clinic.
Surrogacy is the safe and the most good method of having a baby for women like us.
Wish you a very good luck.March 23, 2018 at 6:16 am #1285TrishaParticipant
MS is usually caused by rheumatic fever. A disease rare in developed countries today but that still persists in a large part of the world. When complicated by AF, rate control and anticoagulation are mandatory in the absence of pressing contraindications. Once more than mild symptoms exist or once asymptomatic pulmonary hypertension occurs. Mechanical relief of MS is indicated. In most cases, such relief is provided by the durable commissurotomy created at BMV. In other cases, surgical correction is needed. After these interventions, prognosis is excellent. Although I have heard of scenarios where mothers with this conditions give birth. However, you must have seen a cardiologist for more information concerning the same. If it cannot be applicable in your case you can opt for surrogacy.March 23, 2018 at 6:14 pm #1319MonaParticipant
Hey, how are you? I’m really sorry to hear about your problem. It must be very hard for you. I understand that it’s very painful for you. I know how it feels when you can’t have your baby naturally. It seems like there’s no point in living. Everything seems to get worse. It’s very difficult. You must be very strong that you are coping with all this. But don’t worry. We have so many alternatives today. Like surrogacy, IVF etc. You can opt for surrogacy. It has more success rates. I hope everything goes well. Good luck!March 24, 2018 at 3:41 pm #1343kim01Participant
Hey. I am sorry for your loss. Surrogacy is one of the common and successful methods of having babies. I would suggest you this because it is safe and as you are now unable to conceive. I am also a mother of a baby who was given birth by a surrogate. There is a clinic in Europe. The clinic is reliable and affordable. They provide best surrogates to their patients. I have seen many happy couples who are happy now after having babies through surrogacy. You should also give it a try.March 25, 2018 at 1:00 pm #1362NINAParticipant
Hi dear! I believe you are doing good in life. Surrogacy is a new process, carried out under the supervision of many skilled doctors and surgeons. In this process, a couple who cannot conceive can have their own baby by scientific techniques. There are clinics in Europe that deals in this field. Couples who are suffering from depression due to these things must go for surrogacy as it might prove beneficial for them. I hope these clinics might be able to solve your issues.March 27, 2018 at 11:42 am #1439VictoriaParticipant
Hi there! I’m sorry you have to go through this. However, surrogacy is indeed a great option. It’s expensive but rightly so. I think you could benefit from looking into clinics abroad in Europe. I went there for mine. They’re a lot cheaper than those in America. Mine even offered free food, transport, accommodation for my stay there. Wishing you all the best for your experience!March 27, 2018 at 12:42 pm #1441Joanne SilviaParticipant
Hello Brooklynn. Hope you’re doing well. I’m really sorry to hear about your condition. My aunt had a similar condition. She passed away last month. We were devastated. You’re a warrior! I love your bravery. Keep the faith. There are a lot of alternatives for you to try. Surrogacy and IVF should be on top of your list. Both are slightly expensive. However, I’m sure you do realize that you’ll be getting a baby in return! Plus, there are a lot of cheap options available in Europe. Do look into them. Hope this helps.March 27, 2018 at 5:37 pm #1456Jess blingParticipant
So sorry to hear about your miscarriage. It must have been terrifying to lose the baby. Honey, there are many ways to have a baby. Did you get yourself checked? What was the reason for the MC?Is your husband fine? You have to get your tests done to identify the problem first. According to that, proceed further then. There is an option of IVF. You can fertilize your eggs via this treatment.However, there is a chance of failure.since you are on a budget it can waste the money. The next option is that of surrogacy. A surrogate will carry your baby for you. The cost can be high in some countries. In some places like western Europe, the cost is affordable. They also offer multiple attempts. You wouldn’t have to worry about failure as well.March 27, 2018 at 5:59 pm #1461ezabelParticipant
Hey! Sorry to hear about your loss.
I’ve heard about this disease. It is often treated with surgeries.
But the level of complications might differ. This might be the reason for your miscarriage.
Have you concerned any infertility doctor?
You must look for infertility doctor. Disclose every detail you are suffering.
He or she might help you out with solutions available.
It is quite tough to suggest you any solution. Because there is kind of test scans and you have to meet their levels in order to qualify for treatments like surrogacy or IVF.
Good luck.March 27, 2018 at 6:59 pm #1463smash12Participant
Hello. I am sad for your misfortune. Surrogacy is one of the normal and fruitful techniques for having babies. I would propose you this since it is protected and as you are presently unfit to consider. I am likewise a mother of a child who was conceived an offspring by a surrogate. There is a facility in Europe. The centre is solid and moderate. They give best surrogates to their patients. I have seen numerous upbeat couples who are cheerful now in the wake of having babies through surrogacy. You ought to likewise try it out.March 29, 2018 at 4:56 pm #1515AnonymousInactive
Hi dear, I’m so sorry for your loss. Though I can’t fulfill it but can give you hope. The hope that will help you to cope with it. After facing so much failure, you still took a good decision. Surrogacy is the best choice ever as it’s affordable, success rates are high and recommended by experts. I have read about many clinics online. Some well-repudiated clinics are offering surrogacy at a very reasonable rate. So, I’ll suggest you go for it. Thumbs up!April 10, 2018 at 11:08 am #1784TrishaParticipant
Now is the time to plan your Surrogacy Journey. And here are 4 actionable ideas. Especially if you haven’t set goals. First, Develop your goals first! Second, make yourself focus. Third, Make Small Decisions. Fourth, work backwards. Develop your goals first. Now is the time to shape your future. What do you want out of your Surrogacy Journey? Surrogacy more than any other project is about making a plan for your future. Creating a dream and taking the steps to make it happen. It doesn’t matter how much you plan. You’ll still get some stuff wrong along the way. Don’t make things worse by overanalyzing them and delaying before you ever get going. Surrogacy is a long journey and delays will sap your morale. The longer it takes to develop the harder it is to launch. From the Strength of your Dreams comes your future. It’s time for you to live your life, to reach your dreams. Make yourself focus.
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