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March 23, 2018 at 5:17 am #1279AnonymousInactive
Here’s my story of infertility.May be you can gain something from it.
Now at the age of 43 i am married again to someone else and we want a baby off our own.
I founded many clinics regarding surrogacy and i picked up the few clinics too for further discussion with them.
I contacted many clinics and told them every aspect of our complications.
From my last marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy.
Like i was facing miscarriages every time i conceived.
I know at this age it is quite difficult to have a baby off my own womb.
Keeping in mind all the complications regarding pregnancy now i think i should go for some other option to have children.
So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children.
He agreed to my proposal so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records.
But i’m worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything.
Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her.
But now i don’t have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess.
From their satisfied answers i guess some clinics are the best solution for having a baby.
So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact different clinics for further details.
If someone is raising a baby from surrogacy method please share your experience with us so we can learn something from your experiences.March 23, 2018 at 6:17 pm #1320MonaParticipant
Hey! I hope you are fine. Well, surrogacy is a very common method to have a baby. A lot of women are going through this process. Don’t be scared. If you are going through this process, do proper research on good clinics. There are many good clinics in Ukraine. I hope you find a good one. Wish you best of luck!March 24, 2018 at 9:36 am #1332NINAParticipant
Hi dear! I hope life has been good for you. If you are sad because of your infertility and believe that you cannot have your children in life, then you might be wrong about it. You don’t need to punish yourself for it, scientists have made such elevations in its fields that you can have children through surrogacy. There are some well-known clinics in Ukraine who have experts in this process. My cousin who had the same case had become totally heartrending due to the fact that she could never become a mother. She went to the clinic and they told her about surrogacy and explained the procedure to her. They were pretty understanding and helping. They offered their services at a very favorable rate. She went through surrogacy and now has a baby of her own.Now she and DH are living a normal life. I hope this helps you. Best wishes.March 25, 2018 at 6:04 pm #1370hailey johnsonParticipant
Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. This is a common question. It crossed my mind too when I was having my baby boy through surrogacy. I want you to know that the most important thing is your happiness you shouldn’t care about other people. There were many who discouraged us still we took our chances. Now I am like a totally different woman. Best of luck. Cheers!March 25, 2018 at 7:32 pm #1374monikaParticipant
Hey, best of luck with your surrogacy process. I hope the process works out for you. It is indeed the most successful process and is being done by a lot of couples. I myself have considered it and in fact, have also found a clinic abroad. I too had a lot of concerns regarding surrogacy. However, I watched the videos by the clinic and was reassured about the whole procedure. The clinic is operating legally and is doing the work extremely professionally. They also provide with the child’s legal documents and therefore I am a lot more pleased. For further information feel free to ask.March 25, 2018 at 9:08 pm #1376GracehillParticipant
Hello there.Surrogacy is a blessing for intended parents.Pregnancy is the most precious and greatest time in every woman life.On the hand, infertility is the worst thing in the world.But we all knew that we cannot have anything without a struggle.I myself had facing negative test every time.I am suffering from this last 2 years.I am searching for surrogacy.I find enough success rate is high in Ukraine.Now, I am there to take the whole process.My documentation process is complete.My surrogate mother is very nice, she is 12 weeks pregnant.Hope that everything is quite enough good and positive.I wish that your desires come true.Wish me luck too.March 26, 2018 at 9:44 am #1385AkiraParticipant
There are many good clinics in Ukraine.Ukraine is very popular for surrogacy.Especially some clinics are very popular for surrogacy.We found our happiness there.We hope you also find your heaven there.
Happy to hear about your meeting with the clinic in Ukraine.And very very best of luck for your meeting with the clinic.We also moved to Ukraine for surrogacy from Japan.As Japan has banned surrogacy.So we came to know about a clinic in Ukraine and we moved to Ukraine.With the help of that clinic now we will have out two beautiful daughters.I’m so much happy.
I hope you should also get your desired wish there.
Again very good luck for you.March 26, 2018 at 10:41 am #1393MilanParticipant
Finally bringing your baby home will feel like the highly-anticipated finish line of the marathon that is the surrogacy process. But while your surrogacy journey and your family is now complete. Your surrogacy story will continue to shape your lives even after the practical steps of the process are finished. Throughout your surrogacy process. It’s important to start preparing for this next chapter: parenthood. While raising a surrogate-born child is generally no different from parenting a child who came to your family via more traditional means. There are some important factors to consider as you make the transition into parenting. It’s important to talk to your child as early and as often as possible to normalize their birth via surrogacy and help them create a sense of pride in their story. Breastfeeding is not impossible for you as an intended parent. With the proper preparation, you can have the same bonding experience with your child born via surrogacy.March 26, 2018 at 7:16 pm #1426kim01Participant
Hey, surrogacy is indeed best method of having babies. I have a daughter through surrogacy. I am happy that I have found the best place to have surrogacy. I went to Europe for surrogacy and they provided me best surrogate for surrogacy. She was healthy and tested before surrogacy. Her all test were clear and we have a baby now. Well, it’s not easy for a surrogate to carry someone else baby inside for 9 months. They may get emotionally attached to the baby. But in the end, they have to give back the baby to intended parents. I really appreciate them, They do this for our happiness. I have a daughter because of such woman.March 27, 2018 at 5:27 am #1431chicagoParticipant
“hey, that’s too much long post. I am tired of reading it. try to enclose your problem in short description. It will facilitate every reader. He will able to suggest more concise and precise answer in just 2-3 lines.
Yes, you are absolutely right. Instead of relying on someone else you should do effort your own self. I am looking for a clinic. But still, I am confused about. Choose best for yourself on your own.
“March 27, 2018 at 4:03 pm #1448AnonymousInactive
Hi lady, I just hope you are doing good. Open your eyes and have some air to pass through your lungs. Your problem is quite understandable as I also have a kid through surrogacy technique. You are facing infertility issues due to many factors. Age and weight gain is a major factor in this aspect. In your story, age is the cause. You are 43 now, due to which it would be really hard for you to conceive. Infertility occurs in old age women due to the presence of old eggs which becomes infertile with time. Your husband is good to you and is supportive too. That’s it, all you need is support and courage to go for surrogacy. Besides, in surrogacy process, the surrogate mother will give birth to your baby but the child will belong to you genetically. I think you got my point. The child will be all yours. You’ll be able to love and take him. So, dear don’t feel any hesitation and go through the surrogacy. My prayers are with you!March 28, 2018 at 7:24 am #1472chicagoParticipant
hey, thank you for sharing your story. Yeah, we will definitely get something for our own purpose. I am really sorry for your loss. But at the end, you get a reward for your efforts. The good thing is you didn’t lose hope. you stuck to that point and never let yourself down for a single moment. It shows your bravery and courage. I don’t know about people. But for me, your story is just not a story. It’s some real-life hardships that are phrased in words. We cannot identify the hidden pain of the words. Even we are unable to estimate the time and money cost that you have spent. For us, these are the collections of words. My best wishes are with you. may you live a healthy and prosperous life with your beloved ones. A lot of hugs for you dear.March 28, 2018 at 12:20 pm #1475CatherineParticipant
Dear Olivia, it is great to know that you are making up your mind for surrogacy. It is an excellent option for the IPs. It has resolved the concerns of those who have lost the hope of becoming the parents. You appear to be someone realistic. You know that and accept the fact that at this age you cannot think of getting pregnant naturally. With growing age, the chances of getting pregnant become really weak. Don’t underestimate technology and science. It has a solution for you too. This solution is both IVF and surrogacy. You can choose any of the two options according to your bodily conditions. The best advice comes from the doctors in the fertility clinics. There is a list of clinics that are offering these facilities. They give the facility of testing your condition and then giving the proper suggestion. The major concern before deciding should be the legal status of the procedure. I hope that you get the best option right ahead of you.March 28, 2018 at 2:02 pm #1480Felicia SazParticipant
Hey, Olivia. It is amazing that you are going to have a baby through surrogacy. I totally agree with you. Research is very important here. It is important that we choose a reliable clinic for ourselves. Surrogacy isn’t something one should ever feel weird about. You did not choose it for yourself. Infertility is very common and it can happen to anyone. When your child grows us, I think you should tell him how he was born and not hide anything. I have a son who I had through surrogacy from Ukraine. I have decided to tell him everything little by little as he grows up. You shouldn’t hide or alter any information like this from your child. They deserve to know. It would be a shock to them if they get to know about it from a different source. Good luck.March 28, 2018 at 4:00 pm #1488NINAParticipant
Hi there! I hope you are well. Going for Surrogacy is the best option for all the people cannot have their own children.My aunt is also infertile. She had surrogacy from Ukraine. They had a pretty good team and they were very much understanding and supportive. They offered her a pretty decent rate so that she would be able to perform it. She is now happy and happier than ever.I wish all the people have their desires fulfilled.
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